We Can Do Hard Things
Glennon Doyle and Audacy
Life is freaking hard. We are all doing hard things every single day – things like loving and losing; caring for children and parents; forging and ending friendships; battling addiction, illness, and loneliness; struggling in our jobs, our marriages, and our divorces; setting boundaries; and fighting for equality, purpose, freedom, joy, and peace.On We Can Do Hard Things, Glennon Doyle, author of UNTAMED; her wife Abby Wambach; and her sister Amanda Doyle do the only thing they’ve found that has ever made life easier: Drop the fake and talk honestly about the hard things including sex, gender, parenting, blended families, bodies, anxiety, addiction, justice, boundaries, fun, quitting, overwhelm . . . all of it.We laugh and cry and help each other carry the hard so we can all live a little bit lighter and braver, free-er, less alone.
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Aug 29, 2024 • 50min
Abby: How to Move On after Grief
In a heartfelt discussion, Abby shares her journey of coping with the loss of her eldest brother, Peter, who continues to influence her perspective on grief. She reveals why she now sees grief as a friend and beautifully recounts how Peter saved her life, shaping her understanding of loss. Abby confronts her fears about death and explores the complexities of family dynamics in grief. Together, they highlight the profound connection between grief and joy, emphasizing how embracing uncertainty can lead to deeper emotional insights.
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Aug 28, 2024 • 1h 7min
Enneagram: Why Your Worst Traits Are Also Your Best with Suzanne Stabile
Suzanne Stabile, the Enneagram Godmother and internationally-recognized expert, dives into the intriguing world of the Enneagram. She explains how our greatest struggles can also reveal our best traits. Listeners learn about the core desires and fears that shape behaviors. The conversation touches on the unique characteristics of different Enneagram types, particularly the contrasting challenges female Type Eights face in societal perceptions. Plus, Suzanne humorously discusses why she'd trust an Enneagram 1 for brain surgery!
Aug 27, 2024 • 55min
How Abby Survived Her Biggest Loss
In this heartfelt conversation, Abby opens up about the profound loss of her eldest brother, Peter, who passed away at the end of 2023. She shares her emotional journey through grief, from planning the service to navigating family dynamics during such a turbulent time. The discussion highlights the complexities of coping with grief, the importance of honoring memories through stories, and the transformative nature of loss as a path to personal growth. Abby's resilience shines as she explores the delicate balance between familial obligations and self-care.
Aug 22, 2024 • 57min
Gov. Whitmer: How to Be Happy AND Win
Join Michigan Governor Gretchen Whitmer, a pivotal figure in today's political landscape, as she shares her journey of resilience and leadership. She reveals her thoughts on the readiness for a two-woman presidential ticket and discusses her top leadership tools, perfect for personal empowerment. Whitmer also emphasizes the importance of joy in activism, navigating sensitive issues like reproductive rights, and the essential nature of community unity. Her insights on staying positive amidst challenges offer a refreshing perspective on overcoming adversity.
Aug 21, 2024 • 1h 3min
Brené Brown & Barrett Guillen on Sisterhood & Digging Deep
Brené Brown, a vulnerability expert and author, and Barrett Guillen, a specialist in family dynamics, dive deep into parenting strategies that foster shame resilience. They discuss the roles they play within their family, highlighting how childhood dynamics affect adult behavior and relationships. The sisters share poignant and humorous moments, revealing personal secrets and navigating grief as they care for an aging parent. Their candid conversation emphasizes the importance of vulnerability, communication, and the support that strengthens sisterhood.
Aug 20, 2024 • 1h 5min
Our Parenting Advice: Raising Teens, Family Anxiety & Decision Fatigue
Glennon, an advocate for emotional honesty, and Abby, a parenting strategies expert, tackle pressing concerns about raising teens. They emphasize creating open communication to help teens feel safe confiding in parents. Glennon argues against labeling kids’ stories, while Abby warns that saying 'I’m proud of you' can backfire. They also explore the balance between granting independence and managing parental anxiety, all while offering strategies to combat decision fatigue.
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Aug 15, 2024 • 60min
How to Heal Unhealthy Relationship Patterns + Glennon & Abby On Marriage
Glennon, a leading advocate for mental health, and Abby, an expert in personal relationships, tackle the intricacies of healing unhealthy relationship patterns. They discuss the three essential steps for personal transformation, ponder the relevance of taking a spouse's last name, and share advice for queer individuals navigating the dating scene. Their exploration of marriage through a queer lens challenges traditional norms, emphasizing self-love and connection as pivotal to fostering healthier partnerships.
Aug 14, 2024 • 1h 8min
Our Most Hilarious Mortifying Moments
In this lively conversation, Glennon, an author and activist, Abby, a mental health advocate, and Amanda, a comedian, share their most mortifying moments, sparking laughter and camaraderie. The trio discusses the healing power of embarrassing stories and how they foster connection. They dive into humorous anecdotes like awkward Zoom calls and parenting mishaps, and explore the absurdity of social taboos. With hilarious listener confessions, they highlight the joy found in shared vulnerabilities, proving that laughter truly transforms shame into community.
Aug 13, 2024 • 1h 25min
How to Create Unbreakable Bonds with Brittany Packnett Cunningham
Brittany Packnett Cunningham, an activist and political analyst known for her work at the intersection of culture and justice, shares powerful insights on the importance of community and sisterhood. She discusses the dangers of individualism in achieving progress and highlights five strategies to combat bigotry. Brittany also addresses the need for white women to support Black women's struggles, exploring the complexities of solidarity. Ultimately, she emphasizes the transformative power of collective relationships in pursuing social justice.
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Aug 8, 2024 • 1h 9min
Why It’s Different This Time with Brittney Cooper & Rebecca Traister
Brittney Cooper, a professor and author known for her impactful insights on race and gender, joins fellow activist and writer Rebecca Traister, celebrated for her works on women's rights. They discuss the political landscape, emphasizing the unique challenges faced by Kamala Harris as a Black woman in power. The duo highlights the dangers of seeking certainty in politics and the necessity of joy and identity in activism. They also tackle how patriarchy reacts to progress and the importance of intersectional solidarity among women.
