We Can Do Hard Things

What We Don’t Talk About: Raising Older Kids

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Oct 31, 2024
In a heartfelt discussion, the hosts dive into the complexities of raising older children. They reflect on personal experiences, including moments of parental identity loss and the importance of seeing parents as human beings. The conversation emphasizes supporting kids' individuation and finding a sense of belonging beyond parenting roles. They also share insights on navigating the bittersweet transition to independence, highlighting the need for open communication and self-compassion as kids carve out their own paths.
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ANECDOTE

Shifting Perceptions

  • Glennon shares her struggle with her children seeing her as fallible after previously viewing her as a god-like figure.
  • Amanda recalls a similar experience of seeing her father as a regular human, realizing he wasn't as tall as she'd imagined.
ANECDOTE

Glennon's Parenting Journey

  • Glennon discusses her past addiction and how it affected her development of self.
  • She explains how she learned to parent by mimicking what she perceived as a "perfect mother" would do.
INSIGHT

Losing Self in Motherhood

  • Glennon Doyle expresses her struggle with losing herself in motherhood, constantly viewing herself through her children's eyes.
  • A friend points out how she centers her life around her son, despite being a feminist and a lesbian.
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