We Can Do Hard Things
Glennon Doyle and Audacy
Life is freaking hard. We are all doing hard things every single day – things like loving and losing; caring for children and parents; forging and ending friendships; battling addiction, illness, and loneliness; struggling in our jobs, our marriages, and our divorces; setting boundaries; and fighting for equality, purpose, freedom, joy, and peace.On We Can Do Hard Things, Glennon Doyle, author of UNTAMED; her wife Abby Wambach; and her sister Amanda Doyle do the only thing they’ve found that has ever made life easier: Drop the fake and talk honestly about the hard things including sex, gender, parenting, blended families, bodies, anxiety, addiction, justice, boundaries, fun, quitting, overwhelm . . . all of it.We laugh and cry and help each other carry the hard so we can all live a little bit lighter and braver, free-er, less alone.
Episodes
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Jul 31, 2025 • 58min
How to Parent While You Heal: Live on Tour
In a vibrant live gathering, speakers delve into the challenges of parenting while healing. They tackle internalized sexism and its effects on self-worth. The power of community and friendship emerges as critical tools for support. Navigating the complexities of love and fear, especially regarding family dynamics, is explored in depth. With an emphasis on vulnerability and resilience, insights into personal growth and the importance of connection shine throughout the discussion.
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Jul 29, 2025 • 1h 4min
Bad with Money? Get Better with Tori Dunlap
Tori Dunlap, author of "Financial Feminist" and co-creator of an investing education platform, joins the conversation to tackle the taboo around discussing money, especially for women. She emphasizes how shame can hinder financial well-being and shares practical steps to improve our relationship with money. The discussion highlights the need for women to reclaim their power over finances and encourages listeners to break free from damaging narratives. Tori's insights aim to inspire financial independence and confidence among women.
Jul 26, 2025 • 1h 8min
The Power of Rethinking Everything with Dr. Yaba Blay (Best Of)
Yaba Blay, a cultural critic and author from New Orleans with Ghanaian roots, challenges conventional notions of beauty, arguing that while beauty can be oppressive, its true essence offers freedom. She delves into what integrity in allyship truly means, emphasizing the need for accomplices rather than mere allies. Blay also traces the lineage of 'Karens' in history and shares her hopes for her granddaughters, igniting a conversation about self-worth, identity, and the complexities of belonging in a diasporic context.
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Jul 24, 2025 • 1h 3min
How to Let Go of “Not Enough” with Melissa Arnot Reid
Melissa Arnot Reid, the first American woman to summit Everest without supplemental oxygen, shares her remarkable journey of self-discovery and worth. She reveals how Everest became a classroom for understanding true value, moving from feelings of 'not enough' to embracing 'I am enough.' Melissa discusses the profound impact of imagining her own funeral and the emotional challenges athletes face in seeking validation. Her insights on vulnerability and inner acceptance resonate deeply, offering a transformative perspective on achievements and personal growth.
Jul 22, 2025 • 1h 1min
The Trick to Finally Becoming an Adult
The hosts dissect the six family roles people often inhabit, like the hero or scapegoat, and share their personal experiences with these dynamics. They explore the emotional burden of perfection and the disconnect between societal expectations and internal struggles. Conversations delve into feelings of being the 'black sheep' in families and the complexities of navigating adult relationships. Emphasizing the importance of authentic communication, they challenge traditional narratives, promoting self-reflection and personal growth beyond family roles.
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Jul 20, 2025 • 1h 6min
How to Love Your Body Now with Carson Tueller (Best Of)
Carson Tueller, a coach, speaker, and activist, shares his journey of self-acceptance after a life-altering accident left him paralyzed at 23. He discusses the transformative question from his sister that reshaped his outlook on life and how he's embracing body positivity. Carson candidly reveals why he's experiencing the best intimacy of his life and recounts poignant moments, including receiving support for his first queer date from his Mormon Bishop. He powerfully advocates against ableism and highlights the importance of inclusivity for all bodies.
Jul 18, 2025 • 4min
Love and Transition, a story from The Moth
In a heartfelt narrative, a storyteller delves into the challenges and joys of love and transition. The tale weaves through the complexities of coming out and the intricate relationship with a mother. It highlights the powerful journey of self-acceptance and the emotional farewells that accompany such life changes. Balancing humor and poignancy, the story captivates with its universal themes of connection and understanding.
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Jul 17, 2025 • 56min
On Not Being Chosen, Re-Parenting Yourself & Getting Started | Live on Tour!
Join a vibrant conversation that dives into the pain of feeling unchosen and the healing power of self-parenting. Reflect on the emotional complexities of love, loss, and self-acceptance while embracing the importance of community and connection. Discover how nurturing oneself through motherhood is essential for emotional well-being. The hosts share personal stories, touching on resilience, creativity, and the transformative journeys sparked by sports and music. It's a heartfelt exploration of human experiences that resonates deeply.
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Jul 15, 2025 • 1h 5min
Family Roles: Which Part Did YOU Play?
Delve into the intriguing dynamics of family roles that shape our identities from childhood to adulthood. Discover the six distinct roles and their impact on personal authenticity, relationships, and emotional health. The conversation highlights the burdens of being the 'hero' and the complexities of the 'rescuer' role, alongside the need for differentiation and boundaries. With humor and introspection, the hosts encourage listeners to reflect on their experiences and navigate towards a healthier understanding of family dynamics.
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Jul 13, 2025 • 58min
The One Way to Get the Truth from Someone (Best Of)
Discover the intriguing dynamics of lying, from personal styles to the psychology behind deception. Explore the concept of 'The Puppeteer' and why some emotions stay hidden. The conversation tackles the role of honesty in fostering real connections, especially among parents craving approval from their children. Hear about the difference between manipulation and the truth, and enjoy lighthearted anecdotes about 'white lies'. Ultimately, the discussion highlights the importance of emotional authenticity in relationships and everyday interactions.
