
We Can Do Hard Things
Life is freaking hard. We are all doing hard things every single day – things like loving and losing; caring for children and parents; forging and ending friendships; battling addiction, illness, and loneliness; struggling in our jobs, our marriages, and our divorces; setting boundaries; and fighting for equality, purpose, freedom, joy, and peace.On We Can Do Hard Things, Glennon Doyle, author of UNTAMED; her wife Abby Wambach; and her sister Amanda Doyle do the only thing they’ve found that has ever made life easier: Drop the fake and talk honestly about the hard things including sex, gender, parenting, blended families, bodies, anxiety, addiction, justice, boundaries, fun, quitting, overwhelm . . . all of it.We laugh and cry and help each other carry the hard so we can all live a little bit lighter and braver, free-er, less alone.
Latest episodes

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May 15, 2025 • 59min
Inside Trump’s Personal Profits: His Abuse of Power for Private Deals & Who is Paying the Price | Jessica Yellin & Amanda
Jessica Yellin, an Emmy-winning journalist and founder of News Not Noise, joins Amanda to discuss the alarming intertwining of Trump’s personal profits with political power. They expose how foreign investments and immigration policies are reshaping democracy, emphasizing the real impact of Medicaid cuts that favor the wealthy. The pair also tackle the chilling rise of ICE raids and the racial implications of asylum policies. Yellin and Amanda empower listeners with actionable steps to challenge these injustices.

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May 13, 2025 • 1h 1min
Are You a Cynic, Optimist, or Skeptic? Dr. Jamil Zaki Shares Which Type is Happiest
Dr. Jamil Zaki, a Stanford psychology professor and director of the Social Neuroscience Lab, explores how our worldviews, like cynicism, skepticism, and optimism, shape our lives and relationships. He discusses the harmful lies we tell ourselves about cynicism and why hope is essential for well-being. Zaki emphasizes the need to break from negative mindsets and trust others to foster genuine connections, even in a cynically viewed world. His insights challenge conventional views and offer a path to a happier, more connected life.

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May 11, 2025 • 1h 3min
Mothers & Sons with Ocean Vuong (and Chase Melton) (Best Of)
Ocean Vuong, acclaimed author and MacArthur Genius Grant recipient, engages in a heartfelt conversation with Glennon and her son, Chase. They explore the profound impact of Ocean's work on Chase and the unique challenges Asian boys face in America. Ocean shares his experiences with grief and empathy drawn from his mother's death, and discusses his views on masculinity and the importance of complicating traditional narratives. Their dialogue beautifully weaves together themes of identity, loss, and the artistry of storytelling.

May 10, 2025 • 1h 8min
Jenny Lawson is Broken (in the Best Possible Way) (Best Of)
Join Jenny Lawson, an award-winning humorist known for her candid insights into mental illness, as she explores the hilariously chaotic experience of living with ADD, describing it as "being a kitten on cocaine." She candidly discusses the guilt of how her struggles impacted her parenting, discovering that her child's fondest memories were shaped by these challenges. Jenny emphasizes the power of vulnerability and sharing awkward moments to combat loneliness and foster connection, reminding us that embracing our imperfections can lead to deeper understanding.

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May 8, 2025 • 58min
The Woman Who Spoke Truth To Trump: Bishop Budde
Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde, the first female bishop in the Episcopal Diocese of Washington, shares her remarkable experience of delivering a powerful sermon during President Trump's inauguration. She discusses the balance of strength and compassion in leadership, critiques the troubling rise of the 'sin of empathy' in Christian Nationalist circles, and emphasizes the importance of addressing despair without passing it on to others. With a focus on advocating for marginalized communities, she encourages maintaining hope and resilience in times of uncertainty.

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May 6, 2025 • 1h 4min
What Abby Learned On Tour with Tish
The discussion revolves around Tish's transformative music tour and its impact on her relationships, especially with Abby. They share sentimental reflections on community support and the joy of witnessing Tish's solo performances. Abby and Glennon delve into the emotional rollercoaster of pursuing dreams, highlighting what it means to navigate vulnerability. The hosts also celebrate the growth and lessons learned during the tour, emphasizing the power of connection and shared experiences among loved ones.

May 4, 2025 • 1h 4min
How to Survive This Absurd Life with Samantha Irby (Best Of)
Samantha Irby, the witty author behind the Bitches Gotta Eat blog and writer for shows like Shrill, shares her life-changing strategies for dealing with the absurdity of everyday interactions. She dives into humor as a shield for hidden rage and her unique theory on friendship—embracing 'lowercase f friends' without the need for deeper connections. Samantha hilariously advocates for the Joy of Missing Out while revealing the impactful story behind the 'Fat Babe Pool Party' episode from Shrill, showcasing body positivity and inclusivity.

May 3, 2025 • 1h 2min
Pet Peeves: What Do Our Biggest Annoyances Say About Us? (Best Of)
The hosts dive into their biggest pet peeves, revealing fascinating insights about themselves. Glennon shares her disdain for noise pollution in public spaces, while Abby candidly discusses the challenges of being a bonus parent with no personal space. Amanda expresses her allergy to the word 'fine' and vows to stop using the phrase 'I didn’t have time.' Together, they explore how these annoyances reflect deeper emotions and societal norms, creating a relatable and humorous take on everyday frustrations.

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May 1, 2025 • 56min
100 Days of Trump: What to Know, What to Do & What’s Coming Next | Jessica Yellin
407. 100 Days of Trump: What to Know, What to Do & What’s Coming Next | Jessica Yellin
Amanda and Webby Award Winning Journalist, Jessica Yellin, dive deep into the first 100 days of Trump's second term in office, discussing the implications of his administration's actions and policies.
-The importance of the first 100 days in a presidency—and what Trump’s actions during that time reveal.
-How proposed Medicaid cuts are tied to tax breaks for the wealthy.-The dire consequences of RFK Jr. and DOGE on our healthcare system-Why denying due process to anyone endangers due process for everyone.-What actions you can take now to drive change—and why waiting on Congress isn't an option.
Jessica Yellin is the founder of News Not Noise, a pioneering Webby award-winning independent news brand -- dedicated to helping you manage your “information overload.” She is the former chief White House correspondent for CNN and an Emmy, Peabody and Gracie Award-winning political correspondent. You can follow her on Instagram at Jessica Yellin.
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Apr 29, 2025 • 1h 27min
Let Kids Play: Fixing Youth Sports with Linda Flanagan
Linda Flanagan, a freelance journalist and author of "Take Back the Game," dives into the pressures surrounding youth sports. She reveals how commercialization has turned play into a competitive battleground, stressing the importance of prioritizing joy over performance. Flanagan discusses parents' roles, urging them to set healthy boundaries and rethink their sidelines behavior. She warns against early specialization and its long-term effects on young athletes' mental well-being, advocating for a supportive environment that nurtures enjoyment and personal growth.