Gillian Anderson, an award-winning actor and activist, opens up about sexual fantasies and rejecting wellness culture. She emphasizes the liberation that comes from rebelling against societal norms. The conversation explores how fantasies mirror our culture and the importance of asking for what we truly want. Gillian shares emotional moments that highlight vulnerability and the need for open communication about desires, inspiring listeners to embrace their individuality and satisfaction in both intimacy and life.
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High School Superlatives
Jillian Anderson was voted "Most Likely to Get Arrested" and "Most Bizarre" in high school.
Her nonconformist style and rebellious acts, like shaving her head and attempting to glue the school locks shut, contributed to these titles.
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Want: A New Look at Female Fantasies
Jillian Anderson's book "Want" explores women's sexual fantasies, reflecting how cultural norms and desires have evolved since the 1970s.
The book aims to spark conversations about female pleasure, intimacy, and empowerment.
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The Power of Shared Secrets
Sharing unspoken thoughts and feelings, even sexual fantasies, fosters connection among women.
This vulnerability counters the negativity often seen between women, especially online.
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Written in 1920-21, 'We' by Yevgeny Zamyatin is a seminal work of dystopian fiction. The novel is set in the twenty-sixth century in a society known as OneState, where citizens are reduced to mere numbers and live in a glass-walled city under the control of the 'Benefactor'. The story follows D-503, a mathematician and spacecraft engineer, whose life is devoid of passion and creativity until he begins to realize his individuality. The novel explores themes of individuality versus collective identity, the impact of technology on society, and the struggle for freedom in a highly controlled environment.
My Secret Garden
Women's Sexual Fantasies
Nancy Friday
Published in 1973, 'My Secret Garden' is a pioneering book that compiles frank admissions from women about their intimate sexual fantasies. The book challenges traditional beliefs about women's sexuality and aims to reassure women that having sexual fantasies is normal and a healthy part of any sexual relationship. It explores various themes in women's fantasies, including anonymity, exhibitionism, and scenarios that might be considered taboo or socially unacceptable. The book was highly controversial upon its release but has since become a classic of feminist literature, helping many women feel less ashamed of their own sexual thoughts and fantasies[2][4][5].
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358. Gillian Anderson: How to Get What You Want (in Bed and in Life)
Icon Gillian Anderson joins Glennon, Abby, and Amanda to talk about everything from sexual fantasies to why she says “F you” to wellness culture. With wit, honesty, and an intoxicating spirit of rebellion, Gillian inspires us to ask for what we want—both in the bedroom and in life. This is a conversation that will make you feel bolder and more connected to your own desires.
-How our fantasies reflect the culture we live in;
-Why rebelling against societal norms can be so freeing; and
-The emotional moments that left Gillian in tears.
About Gillian:
Gillian Anderson is an award-winning film, television and theater actor, producer and director. Among other honors, she has won two Primetime Emmy Awards, two Golden Globe Awards, three Screen Actors Guild Awards and an Evening Standard Theatre Award. In addition to her acting work, Gillian is also globally recognized as a respected activist and charity campaigner, previously co-authored the Sunday Times bestseller We: A Manifesto for Women Everywhere with Jennifer Nadel, and in 2023 founded the wellness drinks brand G-Spot which encourages women to embrace their unique power. In 2016 Anderson was appointed an honorary OBE (Order of the British Empire) for her services to drama. She lives in London with her three children.
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