

Husband Material
Drew Boa
So you want to outgrow porn. But how? How do you change your brain, heal your heart, and save your relationship? Welcome to Husband Material with Drew Boa, where we answer all these questions and more! Each episode makes it easier for you to achieve lasting freedom from porn—without fighting an exhausting battle. Porn is a pacifier. This podcast will help you outgrow it and become a sexually mature man of God.
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Dec 11, 2023 • 1h
How To Analyze A Sexual Fantasy (with Dr. Doug Carpenter)
Dr. Doug Carpenter, sexual fantasy analyst, shares insights on analyzing sexual fantasies. They discuss the connection between humiliation, arousal, and projection, explore the significance of a first kiss and its connection to oral sex, and unpack the healing nature of sexual fantasies. They also delve into the desire for validation, the symbolism of disability, and the benefits of joining Husband Material Academy for healing trauma and analyzing sexual fantasies.

Dec 4, 2023 • 16min
Introduction To Sexual Symbolism
This podcast explores the meaning and symbolism behind common sexual desires such as penis, breasts, kissing, oral sex, nudity, diapers, and feet. It discusses how these symbols represent various aspects of masculinity, nurturance, intimacy, and desires. The chapter also delves into the connection between past traumas and sexual behaviors, discussing exhibitionism as an example. It further explores the symbolism behind fetishes like diaper and foot fetishes, and encourages listeners to reflect on their own symbolism of arousal for a deeper understanding of their desires.

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Nov 27, 2023 • 48min
Experience Healing Through The Immanuel Approach (with Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson)
Cathy Little and Melinda Wilson, co-founders of Face To Face Ministries, discuss the Immanuel Approach and how it can help Christian men overcome porn addiction. They dive into brain science, the power of connecting with Jesus experientially, and the unconditional love of Jesus even in our deepest shame. Warning signs of an inauthentic experience with Jesus and the significance of connecting with the living word are also explored. Rediscover hope and healing through this transformative approach.

Nov 20, 2023 • 32min
Can Medication Help Me Outgrow Porn? (with Adam O'Neill)
What if certain kinds of medication can make it easier to outgrow porn? Adam O'Neill unpacks the benefits and drawbacks of supplementing your sexual recovery with medication such as naltrexone. You'll get wisdom about what to expect and how to decide what's right for you. Adam also addresses common objections and concerns about receiving psychiatric assistance with compassion and clarity from a Christ-centered perspective.Here are the case reports Adam mentioned about naltrexone:Internet sex addiction treated with naltrexone - Mayo ClinicNaltrexone in cases of compulsive sexual behaviors - Psychiatrist.comNaltrexone in the treatment of adolescent sexual offenders - National Library of MedicineTreatment Of Compulsive Pornography Use With Naltrexone: A Case Report - American Journal Of PsychiatryCompulsive Sexual Behavior and Alcohol Use Disorder Treated With Naltrexone: A Case Report and Literature ReviewInterested in learning more? Bring your questions to our Live Q&A with Adam O'Neill on Tuesday, November 28th @ 7 PM Eastern Time inside the Husband Material Community.Adam O'Neill is a Certified Physician Assistant who practices Christian Psychiatry in Virginia, where he is licensed to prescribe medications. Adam graduated from Thomas Jefferson University with a Masters of Physician Assistant Studies in 2019. Prior to that, he attended Wheaton College in Illinois, where he earned his Bachelors in Psychology. Learn more about Adam O'Neill & Associates at aoavirginia.comBuy Adam's book (this is a paid link):The Mind After Eden: Psychiatry in a Post-Fall WorldSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Nov 13, 2023 • 33min
What Is A Pornographic Approach To Recovery?
Explore the impact of porn on recovery and learn about the 7 pornographic styles of recovery. Contrasting with healthy recovery, focus on relational and embodied approaches. Embrace pain, resilience, and creativity. Avoid isolation and impatience. Become a creator in your healing journey and take recovery seriously.

Nov 6, 2023 • 25min
Helping Men Feel Safe To Open Up And Heal From Trauma (with Dr. James Reeves)
Dr. James Reeves, a pastor for 40 years, shares insights on transforming churches into places of healing, explores the lack of support for men in church, discusses vulnerability and pressure to maintain a perfect image, and highlights the importance of finding healing within the local church. He also introduces the Fearless video series for men and women and discusses the impact of healing.

Oct 30, 2023 • 32min
How Porn Recovery Can Transform Your Church (with Sam Black)
Sam Black, Director of Recovery Education at CovenantEyes, discusses the opportunity for churches to address the problem of pornography, creating safe spaces for healing and transformation. They explore the interconnectedness of porn recovery and spiritual development, and encourage listeners to become champions for recovery in their churches. The transformative journey of recovery is highlighted, emphasizing leaving behind shame and finding wholeness through the healing process.

Oct 23, 2023 • 27min
How To Escape Creepy Conversations Before Sexting
Have you ever felt uncomfortable or unsafe while chatting online? In this episode, I’ll share practical tips on how to escape creepy conversations… and 5 reasons why we sometimes don’t. At the end, you’ll hear real-life examples of how I have responded to unwanted sexual communication. Support the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!

Oct 16, 2023 • 49min
Healing From Rejection, Racism, And Betrayal (with Roy Kim)
Roy Kim, a licensed marriage and family therapist, shares his journey from rejection to pornography and his struggle with porn as a pastor and male betrayed partner. He discusses the impact of racism and the lack of resources for men who have been cheated on. Roy also explores finding identity and security in relationships and the liberating power of freedom from porn.

Oct 9, 2023 • 29min
Porn And Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (with Andrew Loyd)
Do you know what it's like to struggle with obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) in addition to porn? Andrew Loyd does; he has also experienced years of freedom. In this episode, Andrew unpacks how OCD and unwanted sexual behavior can be related. With curiosity and compassion, he also highlights the path to healing. This episode is important!Andrew Loyd is the founder of Restored Story Coaching. He is an ordained minister, Certified Enneagram Coach, and Certified Husband Material Coach. He is passionate about helping people find greater hope and healing through the power of kindness. He works with men and ministry leaders to identify and rewrite the shame scripts running their lives so they can live with greater freedom and purpose. Andrew lives with his family in Eugene, Oregon. In his spare time, Andrew loves playing guitar, songwriting, competitive axe throwing, and pairing a good cup of coffee with an excellent book.Book a free 30-minute session with Andrew: calendly.com/restoredstory/30minLearn more about Andrew at restoredstorycoaching.comSupport the showTake the Husband Material Journey... Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on YouTube Step 2: Join the private Husband Material Community Step 3: Take the free mini-course: How To Outgrow Porn Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: Husband Material Academy Thanks for listening!


