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Vanessa Marin

Sex therapist with over 20 years of experience. Co-host of the Pillow Talks podcast.

Top 10 podcasts with Vanessa Marin

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391 snips
Mar 20, 2025 • 1h 20min

Your Guide to Better Sex, Intimacy, & Love From a World-Leading Sex Therapist

Renowned sex therapist Vanessa Marin, with over 20 years of experience and the author of "Sex Talks," dives into the intricacies of intimacy and communication. She shares insights on why many feel disconnected in their sex lives and the importance of addressing sexual needs openly. The conversation highlights the balance between planning and spontaneity in intimacy, along with practical tips to revive desire and deepen connections. Marin even introduces a card deck to spark conversations about pleasure, making the journey towards better intimacy accessible and fun.
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Dec 25, 2024 • 1h 16min

Best of Wednesday 2024

Finneas, a musician renowned for his work with Billie Eilish, shares insights on the dynamics of creative partnerships. Vanessa Marin, a sex therapist and author, discusses the complexities of intimacy and female sexuality. Historian Yuval Harari analyzes how information networks shape society, drawing parallels to the opioid crisis and the dynamics of democracies versus dictatorships. Together, they delve into navigating emotions, societal pressures, and the intricate web of personal relationships in today's world.
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Dec 4, 2023 • 1h 37min

Why We Fake Orgasms and How to Stop feat. Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin joins the hosts to discuss faking orgasms, how to stop doing it, and how to talk to your partner about it. They also touch on men having difficulty reaching orgasm. Other topics include funny Thanksgiving experiences, new merch, iPhone features, silicone handcuffs, sex toys, and exploring different sexual activities.
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Jul 4, 2023 • 53min

224. Get REAL Pleasure & Stop Faking It with Vanessa Marin

Sex Therapist Vanessa Marin is back on the pod to discuss how we can all make sex more ENJOYABLE. She shares with us:  How we can stop faking our orgasms and experiment with real pleasure;  How to communicate honestly with our partners about what we want in bed; and Why masturbation can be an opportunity for self-exploration and reclamation. She also offers empowering advice for individuals recovering from sexual trauma. Plus, Glennon contemplates writing erotica. CW: Discussion of sex after sexual trauma For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin, Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin, and Episode 213 Sex Fantasies: What Do They Say About Us? with Vanessa Marin.About Vanessa:Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin.Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve!TW: @VMTherapyIG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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May 25, 2023 • 1h

213. Sex Fantasies: What Do They Say About Us? with Vanessa Marin

Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is back and we’re digging into: why we’re (sadly and ironically) proven to be less likely to try new things in the bedroom the longer we’ve been partnered; how to spice up your sex life when things get bland – including how to find out and explore your sexual fantasies; how not all orgasms (even for men!) are created equal; and the TikTok sex challenges we should probably pass on.For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin and Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin.About Vanessa:Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin.Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve!Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker.TW: @VMTherapyIG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Apr 4, 2023 • 54min

195. Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin

Two silent sex queens & Abby invite sex therapist Vanessa Marin onto the pod and into their bedrooms to discuss: 1. Practical, concrete tips for how to get over your discomfort and talk about sex with your partner – and how Vanessa’s advice is currently working for Glennon and Abby.  2. Why women tend to struggle receiving during sex – and how hustle culture shows up in the bedroom.3. How to activate desire instead of shame when asking for more frequent or different sex.4. A great tip for how to “post-game” about what you like and appreciate after sex. For the first “Silent Sex Queen” conversation, go way back and check out: Episode 14: SILENT SEX QUEEN: Why aren’t we talking about sex more?About Vanessa: Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin.Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve!Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker.TW: @VMTherapyIG: @vanessaandxander To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices
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Sep 12, 2019 • 36min

Libido, Lost and Found: An Interview with Vanessa Marin

Renowned sex therapist Vanessa Marin joins the podcast to explore a new framework for understanding libido and desire. They discuss the changeability of libido and the importance of creating space for growth and overcoming mismatched sex drives. They also discuss the benefits of signing up for an online course with a sex therapist and call for a cultural shift in how libido is viewed.
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May 20, 2024 • 1h 30min

Rethinking Sex, Desire and Intimacy | Spotlight Convo

Experts Vanessa Marin, Emily Nagoski, and Nicole Prause discuss communication exercises, neuroscience insights for extraordinary orgasms, brain stimulation for boosting libido, and cutting-edge research on intimacy and desire. They offer practical tips to revolutionize pleasure and deepen connections in relationships.
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Feb 25, 2025 • 1h 8min

Why We're Not Having Sex—And What We Can Do About It 

Join licensed sex therapist Vanessa Marin and her husband Xander as they delve into why intimacy struggles persist in relationships. With two decades of experience, Vanessa highlights the emotional barriers and societal pressures impacting sexual desire. They discuss the importance of open communication and playfulness, exploring the decline in interest among younger generations. Insights into understanding different sex drives and the significance of rekindling connection make this conversation both relatable and enlightening.
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Dec 2, 2024 • 1h 12min

Sex Therapist on the Connection Between Success in Business and The Bedroom with Xander & Vanessa Marin

Join Vanessa Marin, a seasoned sex therapist and bestselling author, alongside her husband Xander, a co-author and relationship expert. They explore the surprising connections between intimacy and entrepreneurial success. Expect lively discussions on maintaining passion in long-term partnerships, insightful tips for enhancing communication, and innovative marketing strategies for sensitive businesses. Discover how humor and vulnerability play vital roles in fostering deep connections, both personal and professional!