
 We Can Do Hard Things
 We Can Do Hard Things 213. Sex Fantasies: What Do They Say About Us? with Vanessa Marin
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 May 25, 2023  Chapters 
 Transcript 
 Episode notes 
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 Introduction 
 00:00 • 2min 
 Exploration: How to Spice Up Your Sex Life When Things Have Got a Little Bubby 
 01:59 • 3min 
 The White Toast Problem 
 04:46 • 2min 
 The Relationship Between Sex and Desire 
 07:11 • 2min 
 The Importance of Enjoying Sex 
 09:13 • 5min 
 How to Break a Long Relationship 
 13:54 • 2min 
 What Are Your Fantasies? 
 16:00 • 3min 
 The Different Types of Fantasies 
 19:19 • 4min 
 How to Talk Dirty About a Fantasy 
 23:05 • 2min 
 BDSM: A Way to Play With Power Dynamics in the Bedroom 
 25:08 • 2min 
 The Power of Control in the Bedroom 
 27:19 • 4min 
 The Dangers of Fantasies 
 31:12 • 3min 
 The Joy of Communicating With Someone 
 33:56 • 2min 
 The Importance of Feedback in Relationships 
 36:19 • 2min 
 How to Spice Up Your Sex Life 
 38:33 • 2min 
 How to Ease Into Try New Things 
 40:19 • 3min 
 How to Talk About Sex Clubs 
 42:51 • 2min 
 The Yes, No, Maybe List 
 44:39 • 2min 
 How to Have Sex With Your Partner 
 46:58 • 2min 
 The Importance of Being Sexy 
 49:12 • 3min 
 The Power of Vulnerability in Relationships 
 51:54 • 2min 
 How to Surprise Your Partner 
 54:07 • 2min 
 How to Be a Vulnerable Self 
 56:30 • 2min 
 How to Bring Back Your Own Vulnerability and Curiosity 
 58:38 • 3min 

