Women's pleasure has been historically and absurdly overlooked period. So many women have never had an orgasm. Men get a lot of crappy socialization about them too that, yeah, they're just in it for the orgasm. They're complex emotional creatures too. And they're wanting intimacy and connection just as much as somebody of any gender is. We want to be having sex with my partner. I want to be experiencing something with them. It just didn't occur to me. Understand why guys ask women that because sometimes it's not as obvious or sometimes if she doesn't orgasm, there's like, okay, we talk about it and make sure it's better. But I've just never
Sex therapist Vanessa Marin is back and we’re digging into: why we’re (sadly and ironically) proven to be less likely to try new things in the bedroom the longer we’ve been partnered; how to spice up your sex life when things get bland – including how to find out and explore your sexual fantasies; how not all orgasms (even for men!) are created equal; and the TikTok sex challenges we should probably pass on.
For our previous conversations with Vanessa, check out: Episode 195 Sex Talk & That Night in Miami: Sex Therapy with Vanessa Marin and Episode 196 How Glennon & Abby Learned to Talk Dirty with Vanessa Marin.
About Vanessa:
Vanessa Marin is a sex therapist and instant New York Times Best Selling author of Sex Talks: The Five Conversations That Will Transform Your Love Life, co-written with her husband and partner-in-crime, Xander Marin.
Vanessa is here to help you kick shame out of the bedroom so you can start feeling the connection, pleasure, and joy you deserve!
Vanessa has been featured in various major publications and has written for The New York Times, Allure, and Lifehacker.
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