Sonja Lyubomirsky

Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky, a leading happiness researcher and bestselling author, dives into the science behind finding joy. She discusses the importance of connection, gratitude, and kindness, revealing practical strategies to enhance happiness. The conversation also explores the surprising role of psychedelics, like MDMA, in emotional growth and interpersonal relationships. Additionally, she challenges the myths surrounding happiness and shares insights on the complex interplay between genetics, personal agency, and the pursuit of well-being.

Sonja Lyubomirsky, a leading happiness researcher, dives deep into the science of happiness. She shares surprising insights on what truly enhances well-being, revealing the significance of meaningful relationships over money. The discussion covers the transformative impact of kindness, the complexities of romance, and the therapeutic use of psychedelics for emotional struggles. They explore how self-care and emotional diversity play a role in joy, while also addressing the nuanced challenges of parenthood and the pursuit of personal goals.

Today we welcome Sonja Lyubomirsky who is a distinguished Professor of Psychology at the University of California, Riverside. Originally from Russia, she received her A.B., summa cum laude, from Harvard University and her Ph.D. in Social/Personality Psychology from Stanford University. Her research has been featured in hundreds of magazines, newspapers, shows and documentaries in North America, South America, Asia, Australia, and Europe. Dr. Lyubomirsky’s best-selling books The How of Happiness and The Myths of Happiness have been published and translated in over 16 countries.In this episode, I talk to Sonja Lyubomirsky about happiness. Across all of her research, Dr. Lyubomirsky has found that connection is what makes people happy. So then, how do we form high-quality connections? Dr. Lyubomirsky gives us insight on how to use kindness, reciprocity, and gratitude to maintain and strengthen our relationships. We also touch on the topics of psychedelics, interpersonal chemistry, and social media.Website: drsonja.netTwitter: @slyubomirsky Topics01:38 Sonja’s interest in happiness research03:56 The Happiness Pie Chart07:55 The Set-point Theory of Happiness10:42 Connection is the key to happiness15:19 Are extroverts happier? 20:12 Psychedelic social psychology25:25 The Happiness Boomerang Effect29:58 What makes for great conversation?34:16 High-quality connections36:47 How to create interpersonal chemistry42:44 Can you count too many blessings?45:27 Apps that make us happy and unhappy 51:39 Kindness boosts immunitySee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dr. Sonja Lyubomirsky, a distinguished professor and authority on happiness, dives into the science behind well-being. She shares how cultural factors, gratitude, and kindness influence happiness even on a genetic level. The discussion highlights the surprising impact of meaningful spending, psychological barriers like rumination, and the transformative potential of psychedelics for mental health. Additionally, she emphasizes the importance of authentic connections and how technology may help combat loneliness in our modern age.

Social psychologist Sonja Lyubomirsky shares insights on happiness interventions and how changing habits can boost happiness levels. Topics include genetic predispositions, Scandinavian happiness rankings, power of gratitude and social connections, and personalized interventions for mood enhancement.