
Jessica Fern
Psychotherapist, Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, and author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Non-Monogamy and The Polysecure Workbook. She helps people in various relationship styles navigate challenges and create fulfilling connections.
Top 10 podcasts with Jessica Fern
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Jan 20, 2024 • 54min
140 [Replay] Balancing Individuation & Secure Attachment with Polysecure Author Jessica Fern
Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist and author specializing in non-monogamy and attachment theory, dives into the intricate balance between secure attachment and individuation. She discusses how awareness of attachment styles can reshape relationships, especially in non-monogamous contexts. Jealousy and parental guilt are explored, along with methods to address these emotions for healthier connections. Jessica also touches on shame and its link to trauma, emphasizing the need for self-compassion and effective communication in navigating complex relational dynamics.

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Nov 28, 2023 • 1h 1min
450 - Polywise: A Conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley
Today's podcast features Jessica Fern and David Cooley, authors of 'Polywise', discussing paradigm shifts in non-monogamous relationships, the challenges of transitioning from monogamy, and the politics of polyamory. They also explore the integration of restorative practices and the importance of safe spaces for conflict resolution in intimate relationships.

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Aug 7, 2024 • 1h 2min
Erotic Blueprints and the Map to Intimacy with Jessica Fern
Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist and author of "Polysecure," dives into the world of polyamory and consensual non-monogamy. She discusses how to transcend cultural conditioning and insecure attachment styles in relationships. The conversation explores the concept of erotic blueprints, offering insights into different styles—energetic, sensual, sexual, kinky, and shapeshifter. Jessica emphasizes the role of communication, consent, and emotional connections in navigating intimacy, while challenging misconceptions about non-monogamous lifestyles.

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Sep 13, 2023 • 52min
Ep. 15 - Jessica Fern & David Cooley on "Polywise"
Psychotherapist Jessica Fern and restorative justice facilitator David Cooley discuss opening up, attachment, codependency, psychedelics in polyamory, and their new book Polywise. They share personal experiences, relationship dynamics, setting limits, codependency challenges, collaborative book projects, and the impact of psychedelics on consciousness and relationships.

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May 11, 2024 • 53min
151 Justice Jealousy
Guest Jessica Fern, who coined 'justice jealousy,' discusses the differences between jealousy and envy, underlying issues fueling justice jealousy, and the importance of empathy in relationships. The episode explores communication, forgiveness, and tools to navigate justice jealousy and repair relationships.

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Oct 26, 2023 • 1h 2min
Consensual Non-Monogamy Part I with Jessica Fern
Jessica Fern, expert in consensual non-monogamy, discusses the prevalence of infidelity and divorce, issues with the modern love story and codependency, and different variations of consensual non-monogamy. The podcast covers best practices in defining reasons and boundaries, the difference between structural and statistical security, and references books by Jessica Fern, bell hooks, and Daniel Schmachtenberger.

Jun 16, 2024 • 1h 7min
The Other Side of Things Ep 03 - "Polywise" with Jessica Fern
Psychotherapist and author Jessica Fern discusses polyamory, paradigms in relationships, dealing with jealousy, and parenting in non-traditional structures. The conversation explores the spectrum of polyamorous relationships, legal challenges, and the importance of secure attachments for children. Jessica also shares insights on personal growth, finding purpose, and overcoming self-doubt in pursuing dreams.

Jul 4, 2024 • 39min
The 82 Percent: Bonus Conversation with Jessica Fern
Renowned psychotherapist Jessica Fern discusses consensual non-monogamy, attachment styles, and challenges in open relationships. She explores transformative experiences, the impact of comparison, and the benefits of therapy. The conversation delves into perspectives on polyamory, societal influences, legal protections, and the importance of finding a supportive community in navigating non-monogamous relationships.

Feb 22, 2023 • 33min
Episode 209: Jessica Fern Interview
Jessica Fern, a psychotherapist, trauma expert, and author of 'Polysecure,' shares her insights on navigating attachment and non-monogamy. She discusses the joys and challenges within polyamorous family dynamics and emphasizes personal growth through self-reflection. Fern introduces her upcoming book 'Poly Wise' and highlights initiatives like therapist training aimed at enhancing understanding of secure attachment in non-monogamous relationships. Her perspective enriches the conversation on relationship anarchy and offers valuable resources for anyone exploring their relational identities.

Sep 29, 2020 • 56min
291 - Attachment Theory and Polyamory
Join the discussion on trauma and attachment theories with Jessica Fern, exploring the impact of adult attachment styles. Learn about invisible traumas in middle-class environments and the challenges faced in non-monogamous relationships. Discover strategies for developing secure attachments and navigating attachment issues in relationships.