Evolving Love Ep. 15 - Jessica Fern & David Cooley on "Polywise"
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Sep 13, 2023 
Psychotherapist Jessica Fern and restorative justice facilitator David Cooley discuss opening up, attachment, codependency, psychedelics in polyamory, and their new book Polywise. They share personal experiences, relationship dynamics, setting limits, codependency challenges, collaborative book projects, and the impact of psychedelics on consciousness and relationships.
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Non-monogamous Adolescence
- Jessica Fern grew up in a monogamous culture but experienced non-monogamy in adolescence.
- Her and David Cooley's journey from a monogamous marriage to polyamory was a "steep learning curve."
Unexpected Challenges
- David Cooley, despite a monogamous upbringing, was philosophically opposed to traditional relationship structures.
- Opening their marriage brought unexpected challenges, especially regarding David's reaction to Jessica's physical intimacy with other men.
Finding the Right Therapist
- Seek therapists experienced in non-monogamy for nuanced support.
- Working with someone who's navigated attachment ruptures is crucial for effective guidance.