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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

450 - Polywise: A Conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley

Nov 28, 2023
Today's podcast features Jessica Fern and David Cooley, authors of 'Polywise', discussing paradigm shifts in non-monogamous relationships, the challenges of transitioning from monogamy, and the politics of polyamory. They also explore the integration of restorative practices and the importance of safe spaces for conflict resolution in intimate relationships.
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Quick takeaways

  • Moving from monogamy to non-monogamy involves a paradigm shift that requires self-awareness and honoring individual agency in navigating different relationship styles.
  • Restorative relationship conversations provide a valuable tool for addressing conflicts and promoting deeper understanding and healing within intimate relationships.

Deep dives

Paradigm Shifts and Choosing Relationships

Paradigm shifts can be profound transitions in our worldview and how we approach relationships. Moving from monogamy to non-monogamy, for example, involves a shift in beliefs, values, and expectations. This shift can be challenging and may cause paradigm shock, where individuals feel disoriented or uncertain. It is crucial to be aware of the personal choice involved in these shifts and to honor individual agency in navigating different relationship styles. Whether it is an orientation or a conscious lifestyle choice, what matters most is being grounded in one's own experience and making decisions that align with personal needs and desires.

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