Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 450 - Polywise: A Conversation with Jessica Fern and Dave Cooley
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Nov 28, 2023 
Today's podcast features Jessica Fern and David Cooley, authors of 'Polywise', discussing paradigm shifts in non-monogamous relationships, the challenges of transitioning from monogamy, and the politics of polyamory. They also explore the integration of restorative practices and the importance of safe spaces for conflict resolution in intimate relationships.
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Reconnecting after Divorce
- Jessica and David initially intended to collaborate on their first book, but their recent divorce prevented it.
- They reconnected as co-parents and friends, eventually living together in Costa Rica with their new partners, which strengthened their bond.
Paradigm Shifts
- Paradigms, similar to worldviews, shape our perceptions and reactions, even at a physiological level.
- Shifting paradigms, especially from monogamy to non-monogamy, can be challenging and require significant personal work.
Paradigm Shock
- Paradigm shock, similar to culture shock, can cause discomfort, confusion, and questioning of one's identity during transitions.
- Recognizing paradigm shifts and using exercises to understand old and new paradigms can ease the transition.