Jay Stringer joins me to talk about the relationship between our current sexual difficulties and our story in our family of origin. Sexual struggles are rooted in our stories—and, very often, our stories of attachment to our primary caretakers. As Jay puts it, “When it comes to sexual struggles, there are always two story lines at play: there is the story line of your present sexual struggles, and then there is the story line of your growing up experiences which set you up for those present sexual struggles.” If you want to explore your sexual story in more depth, please sign up for the Sexual Attachment Conference on May 5-6. You can sign up here.  Support the podcast

Author and mental health counselor Jay Stringer discusses his research on sexual brokenness, the importance of listening to your lust, and his involvement in the Heart of Man movie. They explore the link between lack of purpose and pornography use, the impact of shame on communication, and understanding the drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, including anger and past trauma.

Jay Stringer, Mental Health Counselor and author, discusses sexual brokenness and how it reveals our path to healing. They delve into childhood experiences, confronting unwanted behavior, detachment and connection in sexuality.

Relationship therapist Jay Stringer discusses the damaging impact of evangelical messages on honeymoons, emphasizing the importance of mutual care in sexual relationships. The podcast challenges harmful marriage advice and explores societal pressures on women's desires, highlighting the need for therapy and sexual education. It critiques evangelical notions of forgiveness and differentiation, emphasizing the dangers of unqualified pastors providing counseling on abusive issues. The conversation delves into the impact of evangelical messaging on marriages, promoting healthy beginnings and seeking expertise for better guidance.

Jay Stringer, author of "Unwanted" and expert on sexual brokenness, teams up with Layla McElwade, co-founder of the Justice Defense Fund and anti-trafficking advocate. They expose the staggering statistics behind pornography, revealing its viewership eclipses that of major streaming platforms combined. Listeners are challenged to tackle sexual brokenness with biblically-informed solutions. The duo emphasizes the urgent need for accountability in the industry, shedding light on human trafficking and the importance of technological advancements in the fight.

Author Jay Stringer discusses the link between past experiences and current sexual struggles, emphasizing the importance of understanding one's sexual story. The podcast explores the impact of trauma, lack of sexual education, and societal norms on sexuality. It also delves into the connection between attachment, past traumas, and cultural influences on sexual relationships.

Therapist Jay Stringer delves into the issue of porn addiction, offering insights on overcoming sexual brokenness. Topics include addressing trauma for healthier coping, the impact of feeling emotionally seen, and navigating shame and desire in sexuality. They also explore guiding adolescents through technology challenges and promoting ethical sexual interactions.

Jay Stringer, a licensed mental health counselor and trauma expert, joins the hosts to discuss the importance of facing trauma and pain for healing and growth. They explore lust management, understanding the origin of pornography addiction, managing sexual desires in couples, maintaining identity in a relationship, and exploring uncommon topics. They emphasize the significance of having empathetic witnesses and individual work for personal growth.

Mental Health Counselor Jay Stringer discusses healing from sexual brokenness among entrepreneurs. He addresses the struggle with unwanted desires, the impact of stress on mental health, and the importance of confronting vulnerabilities. Stringer emphasizes the need for open dialogue and seeking help for personal growth and well-being.

Therapist and author Jay Stringer discusses overcoming unwanted sexual behavior, psychological origins of porn addiction, impact of family dynamics on porn consumption, and self-assessment tools for healing. They explore emotional awareness, self-regulation, confronting shame, and navigating discomfort to address harmful effects of pornography.