Jay Stringer

Jay Stringer, a licensed mental health counselor and author, delves into the complexities of unwanted sexual behavior and trauma. He discusses how personal histories shape sexual patterns and explains the connection between childhood needs and adult desires. Gender differences in porn use and the impact of shame are explored, alongside strategies for leaving abusive relationships. Jay also emphasizes the importance of integrating desires into communal life, while touching on infidelity predictors and the dynamics of authenticity in marriage.

Jay Stringer, a licensed mental health counselor and author, shares his insights on mental health, trauma, and unwanted sexual behavior. He emphasizes the importance of curiosity over condemnation in the healing process. Jay discusses how unresolved wounds shape current struggles and urges listeners to explore their stories to understand their behaviors. He highlights the significance of attachment needs and the value of self-compassion. With practical steps for breaking unhealthy patterns, Jay illustrates how faith and psychology work hand in hand for profound transformation.

Therapist and author Jay Stringer discusses overcoming unwanted sexual behavior, psychological origins of porn addiction, impact of family dynamics on porn consumption, and self-assessment tools for healing. They explore emotional awareness, self-regulation, confronting shame, and navigating discomfort to address harmful effects of pornography.

Jay Stringer joins me to talk about the relationship between our current sexual difficulties and our story in our family of origin. Sexual struggles are rooted in our stories—and, very often, our stories of attachment to our primary caretakers. As Jay puts it, "When it comes to sexual struggles, there are always two story lines at play: there is the story line of your present sexual struggles, and then there is the story line of your growing up experiences which set you up for those present sexual struggles." If you want to explore your sexual story in more depth, please sign up for the Sexual Attachment Conference on May 5-6. You can sign up here. Support the podcast

Jay Stringer, an author and therapist specializing in the intersection of sexuality and personal stories, shares insightful perspectives on the connection between our past and present sexual experiences. He discusses how understanding family dynamics and childhood attachments can illuminate current sexual struggles. The conversation emphasizes the importance of compassion in addressing sexual challenges and the transformative potential of exploring personal narratives. Don't miss the chance to join the upcoming Sexual Attachment Conference to deepen your understanding.

Author and mental health counselor Jay Stringer discusses his research on sexual brokenness, the importance of listening to your lust, and his involvement in the Heart of Man movie. They explore the link between lack of purpose and pornography use, the impact of shame on communication, and understanding the drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, including anger and past trauma.

Jay Stringer, Mental Health Counselor and author, discusses sexual brokenness and how it reveals our path to healing. They delve into childhood experiences, confronting unwanted behavior, detachment and connection in sexuality.

Jay Stringer, a therapist and author focused on sexual brokenness, joins the conversation to unveil how early relationships shape adult desires and behaviors. He discusses attachment theory and its links to emotional reactions, urging curiosity and compassion rather than condemnation. Stringer critiques simple solutions to lust, advocating for deeper understanding of trauma and identity. He reveals how to reframe desires, explore childhood influences, and embrace community for genuine healing, making this a profound dive into intimacy and spiritual growth.

Relationship therapist Jay Stringer discusses the damaging impact of evangelical messages on honeymoons, emphasizing the importance of mutual care in sexual relationships. The podcast challenges harmful marriage advice and explores societal pressures on women's desires, highlighting the need for therapy and sexual education. It critiques evangelical notions of forgiveness and differentiation, emphasizing the dangers of unqualified pastors providing counseling on abusive issues. The conversation delves into the impact of evangelical messaging on marriages, promoting healthy beginnings and seeking expertise for better guidance.

Jay Stringer, author of "Unwanted" and expert on sexual brokenness, teams up with Layla McElwade, co-founder of the Justice Defense Fund and anti-trafficking advocate. They expose the staggering statistics behind pornography, revealing its viewership eclipses that of major streaming platforms combined. Listeners are challenged to tackle sexual brokenness with biblically-informed solutions. The duo emphasizes the urgent need for accountability in the industry, shedding light on human trafficking and the importance of technological advancements in the fight.