Pure Desire Podcast 085 - Unwanted (Pt. 2)
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Feb 19, 2019 Author and mental health counselor Jay Stringer discusses his research on sexual brokenness, the importance of listening to your lust, and his involvement in the Heart of Man movie. They explore the link between lack of purpose and pornography use, the impact of shame on communication, and understanding the drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, including anger and past trauma.
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Sexual Brokenness as a Symptom
- Unwanted sexual behavior is often a symptom of deeper issues, not just a moral failing.
- Addressing triggers alone is insufficient; exploring the root causes in one's story is crucial for healing.
Share Your Burdens
- Share your struggles with trusted individuals or groups to gain outside perspectives.
- This helps reveal underlying issues that you may not see yourself and allows others to support you.
Unmet Needs and Anger
- A husband triggered to use pornography after his wife declines sex reveals underlying anger and entitlement, not just loneliness.
- Women fantasizing about infidelity often report unmet needs, indicating relational issues.