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Pure Desire Podcast

085 - Unwanted (Pt. 2)

Feb 19, 2019
Author and mental health counselor Jay Stringer discusses his research on sexual brokenness, the importance of listening to your lust, and his involvement in the Heart of Man movie. They explore the link between lack of purpose and pornography use, the impact of shame on communication, and understanding the drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, including anger and past trauma.
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  • Sexual brokenness is a reflection of unresolved personal issues and childhood sexual abuse plays a significant role in shaping one's sexual behavior.
  • Lust and anger intersect as major drivers of sexual brokenness, emphasizing the need to address the root causes rather than just the behavior itself.

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Understanding the Roots of Sexual Brokenness

Through extensive research, Jay Stringer found that sexual brokenness is not random but a direct reflection of unresolved issues in our personal stories. Lack of purpose in men's lives increases involvement with pornography, while the impact of childhood sexual abuse plays out over a lifetime. Stringer emphasizes the need to address the root causes of sexual behavior rather than just focusing on the behavior itself. Understanding and exploring our past experiences and current struggles in a supportive group setting can lead to healing and transformation.

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