
 Bare Marriage Episode 230: Why Evangelical Honeymoons Go So Badly feat. Jay Stringer
 Mar 28, 2024 
 Relationship therapist Jay Stringer discusses the damaging impact of evangelical messages on honeymoons, emphasizing the importance of mutual care in sexual relationships. The podcast challenges harmful marriage advice and explores societal pressures on women's desires, highlighting the need for therapy and sexual education. It critiques evangelical notions of forgiveness and differentiation, emphasizing the dangers of unqualified pastors providing counseling on abusive issues. The conversation delves into the impact of evangelical messaging on marriages, promoting healthy beginnings and seeking expertise for better guidance. 
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 Introduction 
 00:00 • 2min 
 Challenging Harmful Marriage Advice 
 01:46 • 8min 
 Unpacking Misconceptions about Women's Desires in Evangelical Honeymoons 
 09:28 • 24min 
 Exploring Forgiveness After Trauma and Critiquing Evangelical Notions 
 33:37 • 3min 
 Differentiation and Evangelical Sex Message Critique 
 36:12 • 15min 
 Pastors' Responsibility to Seek Expertise and Humility in Counseling 
 50:42 • 3min 
 Exploring the Impact of Evangelical Messaging on Sexual Relationships and Marriages 
 53:17 • 3min 
