How to Set Goals and Create Healthy Habits in 2025
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Jan 1, 2025
Tired of failing New Year's resolutions? Embrace overarching themes instead! Dive into the pitfalls of perfectionism and discover how to transform goals into actionable steps. Explore the impact of evolutionary psychology on our sense of purpose and the importance of community in finding meaning. Learn about the complex nature of habit formation and strategies to break bad habits while fostering healthier routines. It’s a refreshing take on personal growth that brings wisdom without the pressure!
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Yearly Themes
Focus on a yearly theme instead of fixating on specific New Year's resolutions.
This theme guides modest, manageable changes throughout the year.
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Managing Perfectionism
Identify specific situations where perfectionism hinders you.
Develop concrete action plans for these situations to mitigate the negative impacts.
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Perfectionism Mitigation
The goal isn't to eliminate perfectionism, but to manage it.
Develop tools, habits, and behaviors to navigate perfectionistic tendencies.
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The 48 laws of power
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Atomic Habits
James Clear
Atomic Habits by James Clear provides a practical and scientifically-backed guide to forming good habits and breaking bad ones. The book introduces the Four Laws of Behavior Change: make it obvious, make it attractive, make it easy, and make it satisfying. It also emphasizes the importance of small, incremental changes (atomic habits) that compound over time to produce significant results. Clear discusses techniques such as habit stacking, optimizing the environment to support desired habits, and focusing on continuous improvement rather than goal fixation. The book is filled with actionable strategies, real-life examples, and stories from various fields, making it a valuable resource for anyone seeking to improve their habits and achieve personal growth[2][4][5].
In this special New Year's episode of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck podcast, we dive into the perennial challenge of making meaningful changes in our lives. Rather than falling into the typical "new year, new you" trap that leads most people to abandon their resolutions by February, Drew and I explore a different approach to personal transformation. We share our own struggles with perfectionism, control, and finding purpose.
We also dig into some research about how evolution may have shaped our sense of purpose, the science of habit formation, and offer practical strategies for making lasting changes. Whether you're setting goals for the new year or just trying to build better habits, this episode will help you approach personal growth with more wisdom and less pressure in 2025. Enjoy.