Negotiate Anything

Practical Tools and Tips to Have Better Impactful Conversations with Daniel Stillman

Jan 3, 2022
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INSIGHT

Conversations Are Designed Objects

  • Conversations are designs you can intentionally shape, not random exchanges.
  • Daniel Stillman treats conversations as products with parts you can map and improve.
ANECDOTE

Using Rose/Thorn/Bud In A Job Conversation

  • Daniel described coaching a woman preparing to ask a hiring lead why she wasn't simply given the job.
  • He used a rose/thorn/bud structure to shape questions about strengths, gaps, and growth.
ADVICE

Run Quick Rose/Thorn/Bud Check-Ins

  • Use the rose/thorn/bud prompt to structure check-ins and surface positives, problems, and potential.
  • Ask one rose, one thorn, and one bud to guide clearer, balanced conversations.
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