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The Genius Life

456: How Mastering Saying No Can Simplify and Improve Your Life | Sunita Sah, MD PhD

Jan 20, 2025
Dr. Sunita Sah, a psychologist and behavioral scientist at Cornell University, explores the art of saying no and its profound impact on personal well-being. She discusses the societal pressures that hinder assertiveness, reflecting on the psychology of compliance versus defiance. The conversation touches on the historical roots of these behaviors and emphasizes the necessity for transparency in healthcare, particularly regarding conflicts of interest. Sunita empowers listeners with strategies for healthier relationships through informed decision-making and the courage to dissent.
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  • Understanding the social conditioning that makes saying no difficult is essential for asserting boundaries and personal autonomy.
  • Recognizing and addressing social pressure allows individuals to reclaim their values and reduces anxiety about dissenting from group norms.

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The Challenge of Saying No

Many individuals struggle with the ability to say no due to deep-rooted social conditioning that stems from childhood. This conditioning often equates compliance with being good and obedience with moral value, making it difficult for individuals to assert their boundaries. The pressure to conform from society, peers, and authority figures plays a significant role in this struggle, leading many to say yes even when they wish to decline. Understanding the origins of this conditioning is crucial for developing the skill to say no effectively.

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