Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
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Apr 5, 2015 AI Snips
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Shift From Rules to Agreements
- People used to rely heavily on rules for managing polyamorous relationships but this approach is decreasingly recommended.
- Many now favor flexible agreements that promote understanding over rigid rules.
Communicate Needs Over Rules
- Communicate your needs and fears openly with your partner to reduce reliance on restrictive rules.
- Understanding each other's values fosters trust and minimizes the urge to control each other.
Rules Trigger Reactance
- Rules that control partners' behavior often trigger resistance and resentment.
- People instinctively rebel against perceived restrictions on their personal freedom.