005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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I've Even Had That Tord, No, Don't Take Away My Freedom
M so i went down this big rabbit hole research about reactants and studies about it and stuff like that. And a, one of the things they foun that is interesting is that this reaction of like, anger toward the source, and also resistance against it, is tends to be especially strong when either that freedom is a really important one to you or it's part of a group of other freedoms. You know, that if i let this one get taken from me, hers might get taken to or if this person is someone who's going to take this from me, they might want to take others later. So i'm going to react against it. Now, i thought that was really
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