005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Is There a Reward for Following a Rule?
Sometimes there can be that rule like the one i used of, like, we have a rule that we're always home by ten p m. M but again, it's that kind of th problem of, Like, well, your partner is coming home on time, probably because theydon't wan to upset you, you know. And then on the other side, i don't get to feel like a wow, like they came home early to spend time with me. It's just like, no, they just followed the rule. And so i feel like you're missing out on the positives while also adding the threat of negatives.
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