005 - Fundamentals: Rules vs. Agreements (ft. Boundaries)
Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships
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Is There a Rule That Controls Your Partner's Behavior?
A rule is anything that's put in place with the purpose of kind of controlling your partner's behavior. Rules, especially particularly controlling rules, tend to turn our partner away instead of toward us. People are often not consciously aware of this kind of reaction. If you have a wall and there's a sign on the wall saying, absolutely under no circumstances should you write on this wall people are more likely to write on it.
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