Dr. Diana Hill, clinical psychologist, discusses psychological flexibility and its applications in various domains of life. She explores the core processes of psychological flexibility and how they lead to flexibility in everyday life. The podcast also explores creative hopelessness, values, committed action plans, cognitive diffusion, and the importance of psychological flexibility.
Psychological flexibility is the ability to stay present and aligned with your values, even in challenging moments.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) teaches and supports psychological flexibility through core processes and techniques.
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Psychological Flexibility: Staying Aligned with Your Values
Psychological flexibility is the ability to stay present and engaged in what matters to you, even when faced with difficult thoughts, feelings, and sensations. It involves staying aligned with your values in challenging moments and taking action based on those values. For example, as a parent, psychological flexibility might mean pausing and responding to your children's fighting with intention and from a place of love. This concept applies to various domains of life, from personal relationships to work and even larger issues like social justice. By practicing psychological flexibility, you can live a more authentic and value-driven life.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy: Teaching Psychological Flexibility
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) is one approach that teaches and supports psychological flexibility. ACT focuses on six core processes: acceptance, being present, perspective taking, values, stepping back from thoughts, and taking committed action. These processes interact and inform each other, helping individuals become more psychologically flexible. ACT encourages therapists and clients to cultivate psychological flexibility through techniques like metaphor, experiential exercises, and honoring individual differences. The ultimate goal is to help clients become more flexible in their lives and for therapists to embody psychological flexibility as well.
Overcoming Avoidance and Embracing Discomfort
Avoidance can hinder psychological flexibility, and one way to address it is through practicing creative hopelessness. This involves recognizing the costs of avoidance and developing willingness to face discomfort. By understanding the barriers to living a value-driven life and acknowledging the avoidance strategies we employ, we can begin to take small, achievable steps towards our values. For example, if writing a book is a value, we might start by writing a single paragraph or setting a specific time for writing each day. Gradually, we become more psychologically flexible by confronting discomfort and taking action aligned with our values.
Living Actively with Psychological Flexibility
Living an ACT lifestyle means embracing psychological flexibility in various aspects of life. By noticing and embracing choice points, we can make intentional decisions aligned with our values. Rather than being rigid or inflexible, we can approach journaling, for example, with psychological flexibility, exploring random pages or topics instead of working through it strictly from start to finish. Life itself can provide opportunities for psychological flexibility, and it is through small daily practices and continual mindfulness that we can cultivate a more flexible way of living that embodies our values.
Diana Hill, PhD, author of ACT Daily Journal, joins us to discuss psychological flexibility. Hill is a clinical psychologist in private practice in Santa Barbara, CA, where she provides therapy, high-performance coaching, and training to mental health professionals in acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT). She is host of the podcast Your Life in Process, and is passionate about integrative health, homesteading, and parenting with intention.
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