Holding Your Own – Behind the Scenes and Part I of Secure Relating with Ann & Sue (235)
Apr 30, 2024
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Authors Ann and Sue discuss themes from their book 'Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World'. They emphasize the importance of secure connections, healing, personal growth, and collaboration to overcome division. They break down the three sections of the book, highlighting the healing process and building agency in relationships.
Secure relating is crucial for navigating an insecure world by fostering connections and collaboration.
Understanding attachment styles and promoting secure relationships aid in overcoming activation challenges and building mutual support.
Recognition of attachment patterns and integration of attachment theories help in addressing trauma and shaping relational dynamics.
Deep dives
Overview of the Book and Purpose
The podcast episode delves into the celebration and launch of the book 'Secure Relating: Holding Your Own in an Insecure World' by Dr. Anne Kelly and Sue Marriott. The hosts discuss the importance of the book, highlighting its focus on modern attachment theories and neurobiology to aid in human healing and relational growth.
Introduction to the Concept of Secure Relating
The hosts introduce the concept of 'Secure Relating' as a central theme of the book, emphasizing the need for individuals to foster secure relationships, understand attachment styles, and navigate the complexities of human interactions. The concept promotes building connections and addressing challenges related to activation, defensiveness, and fostering mutual support.
Exploration of Attachment Theories and Internal Working Models
The podcast episode delves into attachment theories and internal working models, illustrating the developmental journey of secure attachment. The hosts discuss the significance of recognizing attachment patterns, exploring the spectrum of attachment styles, and integrating the modern attachment regulation spectrum framework in understanding relational dynamics.
Discussion on Trauma, Disorganization, and Systemic Influences
The episode addresses trauma, disorganization, and systemic influences on attachment, acknowledging the impact of early experiences and environmental factors on relational patterns. The podcast sheds light on the challenges of disorganization, dissociation, and trauma in shaping individuals' attachment orientations. It emphasizes the need for a broader perspective on attachment that considers cultural, neurodiversity, and systemic influences for comprehensive healing.
Conclusion and Call to Action
In conclusion, the hosts express gratitude for the book launch support and encourage listeners to engage with the book, share feedback, and participate in reading groups. They urge the audience to spread awareness of the book through reviews and word of mouth to promote the message of secure relating and deepening connections in a complex world.
After years of hard work, Sue and Ann could not be more excited to celebrate the release of their book. Today's episode offers behind the scene's conversation and a deeper dive into Part 1 of the book, Secure Relating Holding Your Own in an Insecure World. You can purchase it now directly at www.securerelatingbook.com and get an ad-free podcast feed at www.therapistuncensored.com/join.
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