The Gray Area with Sean Illing

The science of dating

Jun 24, 2021

54:37

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How to Find Someone Great and Build the Relationship You Want

01:35

Is There Evidence That Relationships Are Good for Your Health?

02:36

Modern Dating Is Harder Than Ever

02:08

Introduction

2min

Is There Evidence That Relationships Are Good for Your Health?

3min

Modern Dating Is Harder Than Ever

2min

Is There a Paradox of Choice in Dating?

4min

How to Find Someone Great and Build the Relationship You Want

2min

Is There a Science to Relationship Science?

2min

The Science of Love and Relationship

3min

The Three Dating Tendences

3min

The Maximizer

2min

10.

Dating - Is Hesitating a Problem?

2min

11.

The Opportunity Cost of Decisions

2min

12.

Is Your Partner a Piece of Clothes in Your Closet?

2min

13.

Are You Predictably Irrational?

2min

14.

Daty Naps Are the Number One Way to Meet Someone in the Workplace

2min

15.

Post Pandemic Dating - What Do You Think?

3min

16.

First Dates - The Best Way to Get Out of the Pandemic

2min

17.

Did We See a Surge of Video Dating That Happened in the Pandemic?

2min

18.

Pidio Dating Is an Old Idea From the Eighties

2min

19.

How Do You Met Your Husband?

5min

20.

Dating Strategy

2min

21.

Are We Going to Inject More Erotic Energy, Sexuality and Play Back Into Dating?

3min

22.

Sologan, What Would You Be Doing Right Now?

3min

23.

Psychedelics - I'm a Believer

2min

Relationships journalist and podcast host Andrea Silenzi talks with Logan Ury, behavioral scientist-turned-dating coach, and author of How to Not Die Alone. They discuss the decision-making that gets in the way of our dating lives, the case for finding a life partner, and what dating looks like in a post-pandemic, app-driven world.

Host: Andrea Silenzi (@andreasilenzi), podcast host

Guest: Logan Ury (@loganury), author; director of relationship science, Hinge

References:

How to Not Die Alone by Logan Ury (2021; Simon & Schuster)
Irrational Labs
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find — and Keep — Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller (2010; TarcherPerigee)
Why Oh Why, podcast

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Producer: Erikk Geannikis
Editor: Amy Drozdowska
Engineer: Paul Robert Mounsey
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The Gray Area with Sean Illing

The science of dating

How to Find Someone Great and Build the Relationship You Want

Is There Evidence That Relationships Are Good for Your Health?

Modern Dating Is Harder Than Ever

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