The Gray Area with Sean Illing The science of dating
Jun 24, 2021
Logan Ury, a behavioral scientist, dating coach, and author of "How to Not Die Alone," shares insights into the complexities of modern dating. He discusses how irrational decision-making can hinder romantic success and emphasizes the importance of honesty in dating interactions. Ury addresses the impact of dating apps, particularly Hinge's approach to fostering genuine connections. The conversation also touches on post-pandemic shifts towards serious relationships and the necessity for vulnerability and authenticity in forming meaningful connections.
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Relationships and Well-being
- Quality relationships are crucial for overall health and life satisfaction.
- People in happy relationships experience greater longevity and fewer health issues.
Modern Dating Challenges
- Modern dating is harder due to self-crafted identities and high relationship expectations.
- Increased freedom creates pressure, and we seek everything from one soulmate.
Paradox of Choice in Dating
- The jam study shows more choices lead to less selection, applicable to dating.
- Excessive choices cause decision paralysis and doubt in dating.
