548- How to Heal from Trauma Using Internal Family Systems (IFS)
Apr 1, 2025
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Susan Bauerfeld, a licensed clinical psychologist and expert in Internal Family Systems therapy, delves into the interconnection between ADHD and trauma. She highlights how children with ADHD often face additional trauma impacts on their self-esteem. Bauerfeld introduces IFS therapy as a valuable tool for healing emotional wounds, emphasizing its role in understanding internal conflicts and nurturing resilience. She also discusses the challenges parents with ADHD face while raising similarly affected children, advocating for self-awareness and healthier parent-child dynamics.
Understanding the connection between ADHD and trauma reveals how adverse childhood experiences can exacerbate emotional regulation challenges.
Internal Family Systems therapy emphasizes the value of all internal parts, promoting healing through self-energy and nurturing relationships.
Deep dives
Understanding Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy
Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy focuses on the idea that individuals possess multiple parts or sub-personalities, each with its role. The core principle is that all parts are inherently valuable, even if their behaviors may not be viewed positively. This approach is particularly beneficial for individuals with ADHD who may struggle with shame, as it emphasizes that there are no 'bad' parts, only protective mechanisms trying to keep the individual safe. By recognizing and nurturing these parts—termed self-energy—people can cultivate qualities like compassion, calmness, and clarity, enabling them to heal from trauma.
The Relationship Between ADHD and Trauma
ADHD and trauma are interconnected, with each condition potentially exacerbating the other. Traumatic experiences, particularly during childhood, can lead to negative self-perceptions that influence ADHD symptoms and functioning. Individuals with ADHD may be more likely to experience adverse childhood experiences (ACEs), which are factors that can worsen emotional and behavioral regulation, ultimately impacting their mental health. Understanding this complex relationship is crucial, as it highlights the need for trauma-informed care when addressing ADHD symptoms.
The Impact of Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
Experiencing ACEs significantly heightens the risk of a variety of long-term health and emotional challenges, including depression, anxiety, and even physical health issues like heart disease and obesity. Those with ADHD often face a higher likelihood of encountering these adverse experiences due to misunderstandings of their behaviors and challenges by caregivers and teachers. As the number of ACEs increases, the effects on emotional regulation and development become more pronounced, emphasizing the importance of supportive environments in helping children heal and thrive. Recognizing the prevalence of ACEs assists in understanding the narratives and beliefs that shape a child's self-image and coping mechanisms.
The Path to Healing and Resilience through IFS
IFS therapy provides a hopeful framework for healing those affected by trauma and ADHD, focusing on building supportive relationships rooted in self-energy. A critical aspect of this approach is the understanding that healing requires safe, nurturing relationships with adults, facilitating meaningful connections that foster growth and understanding. As individuals engage with their parts in a non-judgmental way, they can dismantle protective behaviors and develop healthier coping strategies. The integration of self-energy ultimately leads to improved emotional regulation and overall well-being, illustrating that resilience is achievable despite past traumas.
Children with ADHD face more trauma and attacks on self-esteem than their neurotypical peers. Susan Bauerfeld, Ph.D., explains why, and introduces a type of therapy that's especially helpful to people who experience trauma: Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy.
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