
Commune with Jeff Krasno The Orgasm Gap [Luminescence Podcast Preview]
Jan 20, 2026
Join Dr. Jolene Brighten, a naturopathic endocrinologist and author, Dr. Mariza Snyder, a functional wellness expert, and Rosie Acosta, a holistic wellness coach, as they explore the orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships. They discuss the anatomy of the clitoris, debunk myths about female pleasure, and emphasize the importance of intimacy and education. The guests share practical tips for enhancing sexual satisfaction, including the need for pleasure-focused sex education and somatic practices to reclaim joy and connection in sexuality.
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The Orgasm Gap Isn’t Just Biology
- The orgasm gap in heterosexual relationships is about a 30% difference, with men at ~95% and women at ~65%.
- Pleasure and satisfaction are broader than orgasm and often hindered by a penetration-only definition of sex.
The Clitoris Is Much Bigger Than You Think
- The clitoris is far larger than the visible nub and extends into the vaginal walls, often involved in orgasms.
- Medical texts frequently under-represent clitoral anatomy, contributing to ignorance about female pleasure.
Female Sensitivity Has Evolutionary Reasons
- Female sexual anatomy evolved to hide the clitoris for protection, resulting in higher sensitivity than the penis.
- We can apply erectile-dysfunction research from men to clitoral function because the tissues behave similarly.







