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Mentioned in 15 episodes

She comes first

the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman
Book • 2004
She Comes First is an essential guidebook to oral sex, offering a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women.

Written by sex therapist Ian Kerner, the book details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman.

It includes a detailed anatomy lesson, step-by-step instructions, and practical tips to improve sexual satisfaction.

Kerner argues that oral sex is not just foreplay but a crucial part of the entire arousal process, making it a vital component of sexual relationships.

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Mentioned in 15 episodes

Mentioned by Dr. Emily Morse when discussing how to understand one's own arousal and desire.
34 snips
The Ultimate Guide to Having Better Sex
Mentioned by Jolene Brighten as a great book for men to read on how to give pleasure.
25 snips
Let’s Talk About Sex
Recommended by Dave Asprey as a helpful book about prioritizing female pleasure in sexual relationships.
15 snips
Meditation: The Ultimate Biohack for a Longer Life | Dave Asprey | Align Podcast #544
Mentioned by Jon Vroman as a book that provides a framework for transforming relationships.
13 snips
The Legendary Couples Blueprint: 4 Pillars for a Thriving Marriage
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a New York Times bestselling book.
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Sex therapist Reveals the Uncomfortable Reason Your Sex Life Sucks ft. Ian Kerner
Mentioned by Jessica Capshaw and Stefania Spampinato during their discussion on female sexuality.
Call It with Stefania Spampinato
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a popular book offering demonstrations on how to give oral sex.
Porn Sex vs. Real Sex: Why Watching Real Sex Can Help! ft. Cindy Gallop
Mentioned by Emily Morse as a book that had its 20-year anniversary.
1070 Create Intimacy & Upgrade Your Sex Life w/Dr. Emily Morse
Mentioned by Ari Tuckman when discussing windows of willingness in sexual relationships.
289 | Sex, Intimacy and ADHD with Ari Tuckman
Mentioned by Emily Morse as a helpful resource for understanding sex and relationships.
Lasting Longer & Low Libido
Recommended by Emily Morse as a great book about pleasing a woman and going down on her.
Hotline Calls: Unlock Your Best Orgasm Yet
Mentioned by Laurie Mintz as a guide to oral sex, particularly helpful for men with premature ejaculation issues.
032 Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz
Mentioned by Rayna Greenberg when discussing books that have impacted her views on sex and relationships.
BJ Tips, Anal, and Uncircumcised Guys feat. Shaun Galanos
Mentioned by Amanda Lauder as a popular book on female pleasure, specifically achieved through oral sex.
Episode 304 - Female-Centric Sex

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