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She comes first
the thinking man's guide to pleasuring a woman
Book • 2004
She Comes First is an essential guidebook to oral sex, offering a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women.
Written by sex therapist Ian Kerner, the book details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman.
It includes a detailed anatomy lesson, step-by-step instructions, and practical tips to improve sexual satisfaction.
Kerner argues that oral sex is not just foreplay but a crucial part of the entire arousal process, making it a vital component of sexual relationships.
Written by sex therapist Ian Kerner, the book details dozens of tried-and-true techniques for consistently satisfying a woman.
It includes a detailed anatomy lesson, step-by-step instructions, and practical tips to improve sexual satisfaction.
Kerner argues that oral sex is not just foreplay but a crucial part of the entire arousal process, making it a vital component of sexual relationships.
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Mentioned in 15 episodes
Recommended by Dr. Rena Malik as a how-to guide focusing on clitoral stimulation.

50 snips
A Woman's Sexual Desire - How To Last Longer In Bed, Increase Penis Size & Master Seduction | Dr. Rena Malik PT 1
Recommended by
Dave Asprey as a helpful book about prioritizing female pleasure in sexual relationships.


15 snips
Meditation: The Ultimate Biohack for a Longer Life | Dave Asprey | Align Podcast #544
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a New York Times bestselling book.

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Sex therapist Reveals the Uncomfortable Reason Your Sex Life Sucks ft. Ian Kerner
Mentioned by Dr. Rena Malik as a popular book offering demonstrations on how to give oral sex.

Porn Sex vs. Real Sex: Why Watching Real Sex Can Help! ft. Cindy Gallop
Mentioned by Laurie Mintz as a guide to oral sex, particularly helpful for men with premature ejaculation issues.

032 Becoming Cliterate with Dr. Laurie Mintz
Mentioned by Rayna Greenberg when discussing books that have impacted her views on sex and relationships.

BJ Tips, Anal, and Uncircumcised Guys feat. Shaun Galanos
Mentioned by
Amanda Lauder as a popular book on female pleasure, specifically achieved through oral sex.


Episode 304 - Female-Centric Sex