
Ian Kerner
Sex therapist and New York Times bestselling author. He is known for his expertise in sexual pleasure, communication, and intimacy in relationships.
Top 5 podcasts with Ian Kerner
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Jun 20, 2025 • 45min
Sex therapist Reveals the Uncomfortable Reason Your Sex Life Sucks ft. Ian Kerner
Ian Kerner, a nationally recognized sex therapist and author, joins Dr. Rena Malik to dive into the complexities of sexual fulfillment. They discuss the pivotal role of communication, how to navigate sexual scripts, and the balance of novelty and familiarity in long-term partnerships. Kerner offers practical tips for reigniting desire, overcoming sexual shame, and introducing new ideas like non-monogamy. The conversation emphasizes the importance of intentionality and understanding your own sexual history to enhance intimacy and keep the spark alive.

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Aug 31, 2024 • 33min
Redux: Dark Fantasies, Part 1
Dr. Ian Kerner, a psychotherapist and sexuality counselor, joins the conversation to explore the realm of taboo sexual fantasies. He helps a listener, "Fed Up With Fantasy," grappling with intense and shameful thoughts. They discuss how dark fantasies can reveal hidden aspects of identity and the complexities of sharing them in relationships. The importance of open communication is emphasized, along with strategies to enhance intimacy. Dr. Kerner also highlights the role of therapy in managing guilt and anxiety surrounding these fantasies.

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Dec 28, 2021 • 1h 25min
The 10 Hottest Moments of 2021
2021, we hardly knew ya. Just kidding, we totally did, and we’ve got the FaceTime sex to prove it. All year long, we’ve been saving up the very best moments of Sex With Emily, so you can walk into 2022 more sex-wise than ever. From squirting to sex dreams, Nikki Glaser to Esther Perel, we’re doing a hot flashback of YOUR most talked-about episodes. On this show, we’ve banked the top pieces of sex wisdom from hands-down incredible guests. Discover your dating style, locate the g-spot once and for all, and build your sexual confidence with some of the smartest (and funniest) voices out there. Before you create your New Year’s resolution list, be sure to listen to this one – because I guarantee you, their advice will elevate your 2022. Show Notes:So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex by Ian KernerTo Find Your ChronotypeFemale Ejaculation & The G Spot by Deborah Sundahl Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 3, 2025 • 16min
Moment: Sex Therapist's #1 Rule: Create This Environment or Your Sex Life Will Fail ft Dr. Ian Kerner
Dr. Ian Kerner, a renowned sex therapist and bestselling author, shares invaluable insights on enhancing sexual pleasure and intimacy. He emphasizes the importance of creating an emotionally safe space, where communication thrives and foreplay extends beyond the bedroom. Kerner explores the dynamics of desire in long-term relationships, and how self-perception shapes sexual experiences. Tune in for practical advice on nurturing intimacy and embracing fantasy to reshape your sexual script for greater satisfaction.

Jul 25, 2025 • 1h 7min
Why 98% of Men Climax But Only 60% of Women Do | Ian Kerner
Ian Kerner, a practicing sex therapist and author of 'She Comes First', dives deep into the alarming orgasm gap between men and women. He discusses why 76% of women fake orgasms, the impact of clitoral anatomy on satisfaction, and how different brain activations during arousal affect sexual experiences. Kerner also critiques cultural double standards surrounding sexual communication, the influence of desire frameworks, and the importance of vulnerability and open dialogue in intimate relationships. Practical insights make for a captivating and informative discussion.