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The Psychology of your 20s

162. Why do I feel guilty all the time?

Jan 19, 2024
34:50
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This podcast explores chronic guilt and its effects on relationships, including people-pleasing and perfectionism. It also delves into the origins and importance of guilt in emotional development and offers strategies for overcoming chronic guilt. The podcast emphasizes the importance of rest, self-forgiveness, and self-compassion in navigating and challenging the guilt complex.
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Quick takeaways

  • Chronic guilt in your 20s is influenced by factors such as people-pleasing tendencies, childhood guilt wounds, and perfectionism.
  • Understanding the difference between guilt and shame and practicing self-compassion are essential in overcoming chronic guilt.

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Understanding Chronic Guilt

Chronic guilt is a common experience, particularly among individuals in their 20s. It is often characterized by intense and frequent feelings of guilt that may not be connected to a specific event. People-pleasing tendencies, high empathy, childhood guilt wounds, and perfectionism are major factors that contribute to chronic guilt. Many individuals in this generation feel guilty for not meeting the expectations placed upon them, whether it's about being successful, living up to their potential, or prioritizing their own needs. Guilt can also be triggered by relationships and friendships, as there is often a fear of disappointing others. Understanding the source of chronic guilt can help individuals navigate through these feelings and find ways to overcome them.

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