
The Psychology of your 20s
A podcast that explains how everything is psychology. Even your 20s. Hosted by Jemma Sbeg, each Tuesday and Friday we deep dive into the science and psychology behind a topic, concept or universal experience that defines our 20s - from dating, to mental health, career anxiety, friendship, finances and all the growing pains associated with this decade. Listen now.
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Latest episodes

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Jul 18, 2025 • 42min
314. 5 signs they're the 'one'
What truly makes someone 'the one'? Dive into a discussion that challenges the romantic notion of soulmates. Explore the difference between a fleeting spark and a deep, lasting connection. Core pillars like shared values and emotional compatibility emerge as essential for long-term love. The importance of mutual effort and the role of intuition versus anxiety are explored. Finally, healthy conflict is highlighted as a way to strengthen bonds, reminding us that real relationships are built, not just found.

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Jul 15, 2025 • 47min
313. Confidence is a skill, not a trait
Discover that confidence isn't a fixed trait but a valuable skill you can cultivate. Explore the concept of self-efficacy and learn how intentional actions can enhance your belief in yourself. Gain insights into building unshakeable confidence in social situations and navigating the complexities of self-talk. Dive into the difference between true confidence and arrogance, while also addressing the importance of personal growth and mental well-being. Plus, get practical tips on health and self-awareness that will empower you!

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Jul 11, 2025 • 49min
312. Can self improvement go too far?
Is the pursuit of self-improvement turning into an exhausting race? The discussion explores the pressure of societal expectations and the toll it takes on mental health. Burnout often lurks beneath the surface of relentless striving for perfection. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on the difference between intrinsic and extrinsic motivations. Emphasizing the importance of authentic fulfillment, the conversation highlights the significance of relationships and community over mere personal achievements.

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Jul 8, 2025 • 48min
311. How to stop ruminating
Ever find yourself stuck replaying that awkward moment or relationship fiasco? This discussion dives into the psychology behind rumination, revealing how these thought traps affect our mental health. It tackles the difference between everyday overthinking and OCD, and introduces metacognition as a tool for awareness. Listeners learn practical techniques like mindfulness and cognitive diffusion to break free from negative spirals. Plus, there's hope in recognizing the shift from damaging reflections to constructive thoughts.

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Jul 3, 2025 • 39min
310. 5 signs you’re on the wrong career path
Feeling drained at work? Discover five telltale signs you might be in the wrong career. From emotional numbness to chronic boredom, these signs can indicate deeper issues. Learn how your job should align with your identity and values, and why starting over can be liberating. Hear personal stories about the impacts of occupational dissatisfaction on well-being. Plus, explore how to find those dream jobs that truly resonate with you. Embrace the journey of self-reflection and take the leap towards fulfillment!

6 snips
Jul 1, 2025 • 50min
309. The psychology of parasocial relationships
Delve into the world of parasocial relationships, where one-sided emotional bonds with media figures can both inspire and mislead. Discover how our brains are wired to connect with influencers and characters, reflecting our deeper need for connection. The discussion also highlights the psychological roots of celebrity obsession and its effects on self-image. Learn to navigate these connections healthily, balancing admiration with genuine friendships while recognizing the spectrum from casual engagement to potential obsession.

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Jun 26, 2025 • 30min
308. It might get worse before it get's better
Dive into a transformative journey of mental health and resilience as the speaker shares personal struggles and growth. Discover the fascinating intersection of AI technology and justice, highlighting the risks of wrongful convictions. Learn about the benefits of pets in emotional healing through the story of adopting a dog named Talo. Explore the importance of informed choices in sexual health while navigating life's challenges, emphasizing that improvement often follows the toughest times.

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Jun 24, 2025 • 56min
307. The psychology of age-gap relationships
Explore the fascinating world of age-gap relationships, where societal stereotypes collide with genuine emotional connections. Dive into the psychology behind attraction, as the hosts challenge assumptions and uncover the complexities of age dynamics. Learn how intergenerational friendships can enrich lives, and why open communication is crucial in navigating these partnerships. From family dynamics to addressing societal judgments, this discussion offers insights that deepen our understanding of love across ages.

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Jun 20, 2025 • 39min
306. Are we addicted to chaos?
Ever feel like your life is a whirlwind of chaos? This discussion digs into our surprising addiction to turmoil and how our brains crave the rush from dopamine and adrenaline. Explore how this need for chaos can impact relationships and productivity, especially for those with ADHD. Learn about the costs of living in a constant state of overwhelm, and discover practical strategies to foster peace and redefine success. It's a journey towards recognizing the allure of chaos while embracing intentional calm.

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Jun 17, 2025 • 45min
305. The psychology of music
Dive into the fascinating psychology of music and discover how it can evoke powerful emotions and trigger nostalgic memories. Explore the connection between melodies and personal identity, and learn how music can serve as a coping tool in challenging moments. The discussion reveals how playlists can shift your mood and enhance focus, transforming past pain into sources of comfort. Plus, get insights on how our music preferences reflect our personality traits. Perfect for anyone who sees their life as a custom soundtrack!