10% Happier with Dan Harris Mating in Captivity, Esther Perel
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Nov 13, 2019 
Join renowned psychotherapist Esther Perel, a leading voice on modern relationships, as she navigates the complexities of intimacy and desire. She shares insights on the evolving nature of love and the impact of cultural shifts on modern relationships. The conversation also delves into the nuances of infidelity, highlighting that many seek self-discovery rather than simply escaping a failing bond. Perel emphasizes the importance of erotic intelligence, mindfulness, and open communication for nurturing lasting connections.
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Sexuality as a Cultural Lens
- Sexuality reflects both the most archaic and progressive aspects of a culture.
- It's a lens through which societal changes can be understood, from gay marriage to abortion rights.
Modern Ideology of Love
- Modern love expects one person to fulfill needs once met by a village, from security to passion.
- This ideology, fueled by romanticism, puts immense pressure on relationships.
Divorce and Female Autonomy
- The divorce rate isn't solely due to high expectations but also increased female autonomy.
- Women's economic independence and legal rights enabled them to leave unhappy marriages.
