Dear Therapists with Lori Gottlieb and Guy Winch

Encore: S03 Ep. 6 - Becca and Jake’s Marital Impasse

Apr 15, 2025
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1
Introduction
00:00 • 2min
2
Should I Leave My Husband to Protect My Children?
01:31 • 3min
3
Is There Abuse or Emotional Violence?
04:13 • 2min
4
The Loudest Girl in the World
06:07 • 2min
5
Becca, Jake, What Kind of a Stolen Experience?
07:51 • 2min
6
Did You Think About a Future With Kids?
09:26 • 2min
7
Becca, What Was the Discussion About Having a Baby?
11:39 • 3min
8
Is It Better for You to Not Share Your Feelings With Becca?
14:11 • 2min
9
The Relationship Between Self-Expression and a Short Fuse?
15:49 • 2min
10
I Don't Want to Blast People With My Feelings
17:32 • 2min
11
The Water Bottles Are a Great Example
19:07 • 2min
12
Is Isabella a Toddler?
20:41 • 2min
13
How Does She React When You Yell at Her Like That
22:15 • 2min
14
Is There a Rupture and Repair in a Relationship?
23:45 • 2min
15
How Do You Feel When You're Reacting to Isabella?
25:17 • 2min
16
Anger Management
26:47 • 2min
17
Are You Saying That Now?
28:24 • 2min
18
What Is It Like When You're Talking to Jake?
30:33 • 2min
19
Are You Ready to Talk About Your Anger a Little Bit Differently?
32:54 • 2min
20
Jake, Can You Tell Becca a Little Bit About the Conflict?
34:54 • 2min
21
I Don't Ever Want to Go Away, I Love You Guys.
36:31 • 2min
22
Do You Feel Sad When You're Yelling Isabella?
38:27 • 3min
23
Becca, Are You Having These Same Feelings as Becca?
41:03 • 2min
24
Are You a New Parent?
42:58 • 2min
25
Becca, Can You Tell Jake What It Was Like to Hear That From You?
44:56 • 2min
26
Becca, Are You Confident With Your Ability to Identify Your Feelings?
46:52 • 2min
27
How Do You Deal With Anger When You Get Mad?
48:52 • 2min
28
Why Are You Avoiding Dealing With This?
50:48 • 2min
29
Why You Might Not Have Seen Anger Management Help
52:26 • 2min
30
Are You Trying Harder to Suppress the Anger?
54:50 • 2min
31
The Emotions Wheel
57:00 • 2min
32
Anger Management - Is There a Tool That Works for You?
58:40 • 3min
33
The Challenge for Jake Is the Dissociating That He's Doing
01:01:37 • 2min
34
The Loudest Girl in the World
01:03:24 • 2min
35
Becca and Jake's Parenting Challenge
01:05:28 • 2min
36
Parenting Resources - Is This a Parenting Resource?
01:07:08 • 2min
37
Is This Really Going to Be Affecting the Children?
01:09:15 • 2min
38
I Can't Be With Him Anymore
01:10:52 • 1min
39
The Life as a Gringo Podcast
01:12:22 • 2min