3 steps of anxiety overload -- and how you can take back control | Lisa Damour
Feb 13, 2023
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Psychologist Lisa Damour joins TED science curator David Biello to discuss the nature of anxiety and provide strategies for regaining control. They explore the three-step process of anxiety overload, the power of square breathing for anxiety control, and techniques for supporting individuals with excessive anxiety. Additionally, they delve into the nuances of teenage anxiety and when to seek professional help.
Anxiety can be both healthy and unhealthy, serving as an alarm system or escalating into disproportionate responses.
Practical techniques like controlled breathing, reframing anxious thoughts, and graduated exposure can help manage and regain control over anxiety.
Deep dives
Understanding Healthy Anxiety
Psychologist Lisa DeMoor explains that anxiety can be both healthy and unhealthy. Healthy anxiety serves as an alarm system, helping us recognize and respond to potential threats. For example, feeling anxious when someone cuts you off in traffic prompts you to be alert and take evasive action. However, unhealthy anxiety occurs when there is no threat or when the anxiety response is disproportionate to the situation. It is important to distinguish between the two and address unhealthy anxiety through clinical intervention.
Unraveling the Stepwise Unfoldment of Anxiety
DeMoor breaks down the step-by-step process of anxiety. Firstly, our bodies physically react to anxiety, such as accelerated heart rate and shallow breathing. Secondly, we label this reaction as anxiety, though it's crucial to consider alternative interpretations like excitement or anticipation. Lastly, anxiety can escalate due to catastrophic thinking, where we magnify risks and underestimate our ability to handle them. By understanding these stages, we can regain control over anxiety at each step.
Strategies for Managing Anxiety
DeMoor shares practical techniques to manage anxiety. One effective method is controlled breathing, specifically using a technique called square breathing or box breathing. This involves inhaling, holding, exhaling, and waiting for three counts each in a square pattern. By deliberately slowing down and deepening our breathing, we activate the body's natural relaxation response. Additionally, reframing anxious thoughts and challenging catastrophic thinking can help us regain a sense of control. Graduated exposure, gradually facing avoided situations or triggers, can also reduce anxiety over time. Seeking professional support is recommended when anxiety persists without justification or significantly impairs daily functioning.
Anxiety is a normal part of life, so why are we so afraid of it? Psychologist Lisa Damour breaks down how to recognize when anxiety is helpful and when it's harmful, offering simple solutions for calming yourself and taking back control when you feel it slipping away. (This conversation, hosted by TED science curator David Biello, was part of an exclusive TED Membership event. Visit ted.com/membership to become a TED Member.)