The Terri Cole Show

516 Are Your Relationships Transactional or Relational? Signs to Know

Jun 20, 2023
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INSIGHT

Relational vs Transactional Connections

  • Relational connections are solid, reciprocal, and feel naturally rewarding, creating a safe space.
  • Transactional connections are self-serving, often temporary, and mentally and physically taxing.
ANECDOTE

Terri's Relational Marriage Example

  • Terri Cole and her husband Vic lean heavily towards relational, always considering each other's needs.
  • This mutual care contrasts with relationships of codependents and narcissists where imbalance causes harm.
ANECDOTE

Terri and Vic's Financial Lessons

  • Terri and Vic have been financially screwed by others due to their trusting, relational nature.
  • They believed others shared their moral standards, leading to painful but instructive experiences.
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