When I was younger, I literally just thought everybody was the same. Vic is even worse than I am when it comes to positive projection where we make assumptions about other people that they're like us. Sometimes relationships are basically going to be transaction. But not all long term relationships have this.
Are you a generous giver in relationships?
Do you give from your heart? From a place of love?
Or are you a little more tit-for-tat, where you expect something specific in return for giving?
If you answered yes to any of these, or you recognize these patterns in your relationship, this episode is for you. I break down the difference between relational unions (more heart-centered) and transactional unions (more quid pro quo).
I also give you steps to become more balanced between the two, because you do not want the pendulum to swing too far in either direction.
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