"I am always coming from there's a, it's okay. Like if you want to do this thing, do it and we'll figure it out," she says. "If Vic is worried about something and he's like, well, I probably shouldn't go on this thing because, you know, we're getting the house worked at whatever the thing is ... Whatever he's worried about." She adds: "There's no way that we can't in a way go back to the scene in the crime"
Are you a generous giver in relationships?
Do you give from your heart? From a place of love?
Or are you a little more tit-for-tat, where you expect something specific in return for giving?
If you answered yes to any of these, or you recognize these patterns in your relationship, this episode is for you. I break down the difference between relational unions (more heart-centered) and transactional unions (more quid pro quo).
I also give you steps to become more balanced between the two, because you do not want the pendulum to swing too far in either direction.
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