A transactional union is self focused. I'm thinking about getting my needs met. If I win, then you kind of have to lose,. It's almost like can't be two winners if it's a transactional union. There's also punishment where if you don't meet what the other person wants you to do., they can be with the drawn in anger and judgment. Think about it more as quid pro quo, which we think about that when it comes to business or politicswhere it's like I do for you, you do for me. That's really in a healthy marriage.

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