"I'm always thinking like what can I do to make Vic's life easier? And he's always thinking that about me and doing things. So it's like I'm never on the other side," she says. "It feels so good to be witnessed by the other and know that we're kind of cheering each other on for whatever it is that we want to accomplish"
Are you a generous giver in relationships?
Do you give from your heart? From a place of love?
Or are you a little more tit-for-tat, where you expect something specific in return for giving?
If you answered yes to any of these, or you recognize these patterns in your relationship, this episode is for you. I break down the difference between relational unions (more heart-centered) and transactional unions (more quid pro quo).
I also give you steps to become more balanced between the two, because you do not want the pendulum to swing too far in either direction.
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