Erick Cloward, an executive coach from Amsterdam and former tech CTO, discusses his journey into Stoicism and leadership coaching. He dispels misconceptions about Stoicism, emphasizing its emotional depth and relevance today. Erick reveals insights from his upcoming book, "Stoicism 101," focusing on how Stoic principles like the dichotomy of control can strengthen leadership and resilience. He highlights the importance of emotional regulation, particularly regarding anger, and shares how understanding historical figures enriches one's Stoic practice.
Erick Cloward illustrates how Stoicism enhances emotional management by reframing emotions as responses to thoughts rather than suppressing them.
Through the dichotomy of control, Stoicism encourages leaders to focus on what they can influence, improving decision-making and team morale.
Cloward highlights the contemporary relevance of Stoicism in addressing mental health challenges, offering straightforward principles for resilience in uncertain times.
Deep dives
Eric Kloard's Journey into Stoicism
Eric Kloard, an executive coach and founder of the Stoic Coffee Break podcast, shares his transformative journey into Stoicism, sparked by a podcast episode featuring the book 'The Guide to the Good Life' by William Irvine. Initially hesitant and doubting his intellectual capacity, Eric gradually began to embrace philosophical concepts through repeated engagement with Stoic texts. His passion led him to create a podcast where he shares practical applications of Stoicism in daily life, helping others navigate emotional challenges. Through this medium, he developed a clearer understanding of Stoic principles, ultimately leading to impactful changes in his personal and professional life.
Clarifying Misconceptions about Stoicism
A major misconception surrounding Stoicism is the belief that it promotes emotional suppression or a lack of feeling. Eric emphasizes that Stoicism actually teaches individuals to manage their emotions constructively rather than to ignore or deny them. He highlights how emotions stem from one’s thoughts, and understanding this fundamental truth can radically alter how one navigates life’s challenges. By reframing emotions within a Stoic context, individuals can learn to find balance and acceptance instead of falling victim to volatile feelings.
The Role of Anger in Stoicism
Eric discusses the complexity of anger as both a natural human emotion and a potential barrier to rational thinking. He argues that while anger can sometimes act as a motivator for action, it often clouds judgment and leads to regrettable decisions. Drawing from his personal experiences, Eric explains how Stoicism has equipped him to manage anger by fostering self-awareness and rational analysis of situations. This empowers individuals to respond to provocation with clarity rather than emotional upheaval, ultimately creating a more favorable outcome.
Applying Stoicism to Leadership and Decision Making
Stoicism offers invaluable lessons for leaders, primarily through the concept of the dichotomy of control, which encourages focusing on what can be directly influenced rather than what cannot. Eric asserts that many leaders fall into the trap of micromanaging, which hinders their efficacy and the overall morale of their teams. By practicing premeditatio malorum, or the premeditation of evils, leaders can prepare for potential challenges and navigate uncertainties with greater resilience. Such Stoic principles foster a culture of understanding, integrity, and proactive problem-solving within organizations.
Stoicism as a Practical Philosophy for Modern Life
Eric believes that Stoicism remains profoundly relevant in today’s chaotic world, offering essential guidance for resilience amid turmoil. He identifies increasing rates of despair and mental health issues as signals of a societal need for the core tenets of Stoicism. This philosophy provides straightforward principles to help individuals navigate life's complexities without the burden of dogma. Emphasizing personal responsibility and the acceptance of life's unpredictability, Stoicism serves as a practical resource for people seeking meaning and stability in a fast-paced world.
In this episode, I chat with Erick Cloward. Erick is an executive coach, based in Amsterdam, who helps leaders build more resilient teams and make better decisions. He is a former tech CTO and software developer. Erick started the Stoic Coffee Break podcast in 2018, to provide people with practical advice on applying Stoicism to their lives –- it now has more than 9 million downloads. He has his first book coming out on 4th February, from Adams Media, titled Stoicism 101: From Marcus Aurelius and Epictetus to the Role of Reason and Amor Fati, an Essential Primer on Stoic Philosophy.
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Highlights
* How did you first become interested in Stoicism?
* Misconceptions people have about Stoicism
* Why Stoicism is important today
* How did you get started doing your podcast and what have you learned from the experience?
* What’s your book, Stoicism 101, about?
* What aspects of Stoicism do you think are most relevant to executive coaching?
* What can Stoicism tell us about leadership?
* How Stoicism might help people to avoid getting so angry