891: Finding Calm, Balance, and a Cure for Workaholism with Dr. Bryan Robinson
Aug 17, 2023
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Dr. Bryan Robinson discusses the dangers of work addiction and shares 10 C's to find calm. They explore work-life balance challenges in a hybrid work environment and the importance of setting boundaries. They also delve into self-talk and research findings on speaking in the third person. Learn how to flip challenges into opportunities and explore the power of comedy and fresh perspectives.
Identifying workaholism and cultivating self-compassion are vital for achieving work-life balance.
Creating boundaries and practicing the 10 C's can lead to a calmer and more fulfilled life.
Deep dives
Understanding Workaholism and Finding Calm
In this podcast episode, Dr. Brian Robinson shares his insights on workaholism and finding calm amid stress. He explains what workaholism really is and provides signs to identify if one is a workaholic. Dr. Robinson introduces the 10 C's to help listeners find their calm, including curiosity instead of judgment, calm versus anxiety, and compassion instead of cold-heartedness. He emphasizes the importance of self-talk and self-compassion in achieving a higher state of mind and living a balanced life.
Setting Boundaries and Managing Remote Work
Dr. Robinson discusses the challenges of setting boundaries and managing remote work. With the blurred lines between personal and work life, he highlights the significance of creating mental understandings and physical boundaries in a hybrid work environment. Dr. Robinson shares statistics on the prevalence of overworking at home and the increased risk of burnout. He offers practical strategies to honor boundaries, both for oneself and with family members, fostering a healthier work-life balance.
Befriending Negative Emotions and Cultivating Positive States
Dr. Robinson explores the importance of befriending negative emotions and cultivating positive states of mind. He highlights the power of curiosity in shifting from judgment to understanding. Dr. Robinson emphasizes the benefits of self-compassion, which can lead to better self-care and lower cardiovascular risks. He presents the concept of living from a central command center, focusing on 10 Cs such as clarity, creativity, and celebration. By practicing these Cs, individuals can achieve a calmer and more fulfilled life.
Taking Control, Overcoming Work Addiction, and Flipping Perspectives
Dr. Robinson shares personal stories and insights on taking control, overcoming work addiction, and flipping perspectives. He discusses the roots of workaholism and how childhood experiences can contribute to its development. Dr. Robinson highlights the importance of awareness, acknowledgement, and acceptance in overcoming work addiction and choosing healthier coping mechanisms. He also shares practical tips on self-talk as a tool for separating from negative thoughts and gaining a broader perspective. The episode concludes with a call to focus on tall comings rather than shortcomings and to approach life with curiosity and a sense of humor.
Bryan E. Robinson is Founder and Chief Architect Officer of Comfort Zones Digital, Professor Emeritus at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte, and a psychotherapist in private practice. He writes for Forbes.com and Thrive Global and is the author of over forty books, including three editions of Chained to the Desk: A Guidebook for Workaholics, Their Partners and Children, and the Clinicians Who Treat Them and #Chill: Turn Off Your Job and Turn on Your Life.