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The podcast episode delves into the significance of self-acceptance and vulnerability. The speaker emphasizes the need to remove armor and open oneself to the messiness and magic of relationships and the human condition. It is highlighted that lasting change and growth can only occur through self-acceptance, while also striving for personal improvement. The importance of curiosity, self-awareness, and cultivating a mindset of embracing imperfections is emphasized in order to live a more authentic and fulfilling life.
The episode addresses the fear and hesitation that individuals may have in confronting their deep-seated emotions and personal struggles. The speaker encourages listeners to recognize that the armor we wear to protect ourselves often ends up holding us back. It is mentioned that while the process of self-discovery can be messy and challenging, avoiding it only prolongs the pain and restricts personal growth. Opening up to curiosity, self-awareness, and seeking professional guidance if necessary is key to unraveling emotional patterns and moving towards a healthier and more fulfilling life.
The episode explores the concept of finding a balance between self-acceptance and the desire to excel and improve. The speaker challenges the notion that embracing imperfections equates to complacency. Instead, the importance of self-acceptance as a catalyst for lasting change is emphasized. It is acknowledged that change can evoke fear, but remaining open to curiosity and developing self-awareness can lead to personal growth and positive transformation. The episode also highlights the significance of self-care, vulnerability, and fostering healthy relationships in this journey.
The podcast delves into the importance of fostering a family-focused dynamic in relationships and decision-making. The speaker emphasizes the significance of open communication, respecting boundaries, and creating a supportive and loving environment within the family unit. The concept of veto power is discussed, where each member of the family has the right to veto a decision, promoting fairness and mutual respect. It is highlighted that balancing individual desires with the well-being and harmony of the family leads to a stronger and healthier family dynamic.
The speaker reflects on the importance of not just enforcing compliance in children, but also explaining the 'why' behind the rules. By giving children the reasoning and understanding behind the rules, they can make independent choices based on family values. The speaker shares an example of how their child chose not to watch a violent movie because it went against their family values. This approach helps children develop an internal commitment to family values rather than just blindly following rules.
The speaker discusses their journey with sobriety and how it has transformed their life. They highlight how sobriety is not a burden, but a superpower that allows them to stay present and work through difficulties rather than numbing them with alcohol. The speaker also mentions their change in perspective towards perfectionism, realizing that it's okay to do something well enough instead of striving for perfection. They also humorously mention their love for getting bangs and their obsession with watching movie trailers, British crime procedurals, and TikTok
"We chase extraordinary moments instead of being grateful for ordinary moments until hard shit happens. And then in the face of really hard stuff — illness, death, loss — the only thing we're begging for is a normal moment." — Brené Brown
Dr. Brené Brown (@BreneBrown) is a research professor at the University of Houston where she holds the Huffington Foundation – Brené Brown Endowed Chair at The Graduate College of Social Work. Brené is also a visiting professor in management at The University of Texas at Austin McCombs School of Business.
She has spent the past two decades studying courage, vulnerability, shame, and empathy and is the author of five #1 New York Times bestsellers: The Gifts of Imperfection, Daring Greatly, Rising Strong, Braving the Wilderness, and her latest book, Dare to Lead, which is the culmination of a seven-year study on courage and leadership. Brené hosts the Unlocking Us podcast, and her TED talk -- The Power of Vulnerability -- is one of the top five most viewed TED talks in the world with over 45 million views. She is also the first researcher to have a filmed lecture on Netflix. The Call to Courage special debuted on the streaming service on April 19, 2019.
Please enjoy Brené's return to the show!
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