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Mentioned in 57 episodes
The Gap and The Gain
The High Achievers' Guide to Happiness, Confidence, and Success
Book • 2020
This book introduces the concept of 'The Gap and The Gain', developed by Dan Sullivan, which helps high achievers understand why they are often unhappy despite their accomplishments.
It explains that measuring oneself against an ideal (the Gap) leads to dissatisfaction, while measuring against past achievements (the Gain) fosters happiness, gratitude, and motivation.
The book is a masterclass on positive psychology, healthy relationships, mental well-being, and high-performance, offering practical advice on how to shift focus to appreciate progress and achieve greater fulfillment and success.
It explains that measuring oneself against an ideal (the Gap) leads to dissatisfaction, while measuring against past achievements (the Gain) fosters happiness, gratitude, and motivation.
The book is a masterclass on positive psychology, healthy relationships, mental well-being, and high-performance, offering practical advice on how to shift focus to appreciate progress and achieve greater fulfillment and success.
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Mentioned in 57 episodes
Mentioned by Jonny when discussing overcoming past problems and reframing current challenges.

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Mentioned by Benjamin Hardy as a book co-authored with Dan Sullivan, focusing on high achievers' guide to happiness and success.

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Chris Williamson when discussing self-improvement and the importance of focusing on progress rather than perceived shortcomings.


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Joe Buleg in the context of focusing on progress rather than the gap between current and desired states.


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Amy Porterfield ’s favorite book for focusing on gains instead of dwelling on missed goals.


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Mentioned by Ron Babcock as a book that resonated with him and impacted his perspective on success and daily life.

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Mentioned by Patrick Cummings as a book focusing on the gap between where you are and where you want to be versus the gain from where you started.

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Recommended by Amy Porterfield as a book that focuses on what you've learned and how far you've come.

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Mike Schmitz for its insightful approach to measuring progress and achieving happiness.


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