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Mentioned in 4 episodes
The Power of Discord
Why the Ups and Downs of Relationships are the Secret to Building Intimacy, Resilience, and Trust
Book • 2020
This book argues that discord in relationships is not only normal but essential for social and emotional development.
Drawing from Ed Tronick's 'still-face experiment' and Claudia Gold's clinical experience, it shows how the everyday dance of mismatch and repair in relationships helps form deep, lasting, trusting relationships and develops resilience in times of stress and trauma.
The authors emphasize that our highly evolved sense of self makes us separate, yet our survival depends on connection, and that working through relational turbulence is key to stronger relationships and a solid sense of self.
Drawing from Ed Tronick's 'still-face experiment' and Claudia Gold's clinical experience, it shows how the everyday dance of mismatch and repair in relationships helps form deep, lasting, trusting relationships and develops resilience in times of stress and trauma.
The authors emphasize that our highly evolved sense of self makes us separate, yet our survival depends on connection, and that working through relational turbulence is key to stronger relationships and a solid sense of self.
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Mentioned in 4 episodes
Mentioned as the main topic of the two-part discussion on why the ups and downs of relationships are important.
Dr. Edward Tronick: How Discord and Repair Build Resiliency in Relationships - Part 2
Mentioned by Aliza Pressman as a book co-written by Dr. Claudia Gold and Dr. Ed Tronick, discussing the power of discord in child development.
Ep 67: The Power of Co-Regulation with Dr. Claudia Gold.
Mentioned by Lindsay Gibson to illustrate the importance of repairing mistakes in parent-child relationships.
123 - Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents w/ Dr. Lindsay C. Gibson
Mentioned by Eli Harwood , referencing his longitudinal study on secure attachment in parent-child relationships.
Eli Harwood: Why 'Fairness' Is an Illusion in Parenting and Relationships
Mentioned by Robyn Gobbel to illustrate the research behind the 30% attunement statistic in parenting.
Ep. 80: What To Do After We Mess Up (Rupture Repair!)
