The Glow Up Secrets

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's podcast episode I give you my best advice on what to do when life feels messy and out of control.Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #perfectionism #podcast #trusttheprocessBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 if you've been living in survival mode, overthinking, overworking, overdoing… then this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing the tools, mindset shifts, and nervous system practises that have helped me stop, trying to control everything and start living with more peace, trust, and softness. We'll talk about how to let go of the pressure to do it all, how does feel safe and rest, and how to shift back into your feminine energy in a way that feels nourishing, not performative.Today's Journal Prompts:1. where am I forcing or controlling right now in my life and what’s one mindset that I can make to release even a little bit of this pressure? 2. what does softness feel like in my body and how can I create more of it within my week? Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 intro01:56 why don’t you reside in your feminine energy ?07:19 this is a journey, not another task08:47 feminine & masculine energy explained11:25 emotional releasing & connecting emotionally13:36 nature, movement, cyclical living/cycle syncing17:57 nervous system regulation22:03 the art of detachment24:12 just because you can, doesn’t mean you have to29:18 letting go of the past31:31 ditching perfectionism33:34 rest & taking space34:58 removing toxic external stressors37:37 prompt #140:18 prompt #241:28 becoming aware of how you FEEL#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #softlife #feminineenergy #perfectionism #podcastBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, we are diving deep into no longer being "low maintenance" in relationships by first looking at WHY we accept the bare minimum, situationships and relationships that do not serve us and mindset shifts, journal prompts and reminders to finally get out of your patterns. I hope you resonate 🤍Today's Journal Prompts:1. What have I accepted and negotiated in my past relationships that do not align to what I truly want in a relationship and what do I want in a relationship? 2. What is the way that I tend to shut down when it comes to seeing that my relationship needs are not being met?EXTRA PROMPTS3. What’s one daily habit that I could practice that will help me get closer to becoming the version of me who has strong boundaries? E.x letting myself have a second to respond to a request before saying yes or prioritizing a certain set of personal life goals before spending excessive amount of time in my relationship)4. What qualities would I love to see in a person when it comes to conflict and how they respond when I’m bringing up that my needs in a relationship aren't being met?5. What is a reminder that I can tell myself in the times that I am too afraid to walk away? (example- letting go of something that is not 100% for me, allows me to get closer to what is 100% for me)Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 intro01:05 how to stop being low maintenance in relationships03:52 gaslighting yourself06:47 the cycle you keep playing out14:14 grant yourself MORE18:25 get clear on your needs and wants22:25 communication32:49 healthy love#anxiousattachment #secureattachment #datingadvice #relationshiptips #healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomenBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 in today's episode, I'm talking about something deeply personal… What it really means shut yourself off from happiness, joy, and even love… And how healing your inner child can start to change everything..We'll dive into:-the subtle ways we block happiness and softness-where these patterns start-who are you could be if you let yourself feel safe again-how to reconnect with a version of you that actually enjoys lifeMy inner child discovery digital guide on sale now! https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/76e37742-8b45-4691-a2fd-1acec42c0301Today's Journal Prompts:1. What is my way of shutting myself off? 2. Why am I doing this and where is it coming from?3. Who would I be if I didn't push my inner child into its shell?My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 getting to the root of why we shut ourselves off from happiness, inner child healing & emotional releasing21:45 the journey of unlocking your inner childs potential#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #innerchildhealing #perfectionism #shadowworkBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Dive into a transformative journey of self-improvement where the host shares a four-step journaling process to help you break free from limiting beliefs. Explore the importance of reshaping your self-identity and recognize the stories that hold you back. Learn how to kick bad habits and embrace change with kindness to yourself. Reflect on how your life would flourish if you became the best version of you, complete with practical prompts to guide your daily growth!

Hi my loves 🦋 in today's episode, we discuss the importance of taking a balanced approach to levelling up in life. From focussing on productivity, health, and self improvement to embracing rest, relaxation, and self-care, I'm sharing how to level up without falling into burn out. Explore how to take all aspects of life seriously- from growth, fitness, goals and rest and why it's essential to treat every part of your well-being with equal attention. It's time to prioritize balance, growth, and levelling up without losing yourself in the process!My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 locking in, levelling up & taking life seriously01:11 pushing yourself out of your current identity02:41 burnout & how to actually rest10:14 taking self care & glowing up seriously#selfimprovement #levelup #glowup #softlife #selfcareroutine #selfcarejourney #habitchange #selfsabotage #breakingbadhabits #routine #resetyourmindset #perfectionism #selfimprovement #motivationBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Discover the journey from anxious-avoidant attachment to secure love. Learn why real relationships thrive on security, consistency, and mutual effort. Explore how childhood experiences shape adult intimacy and the challenges of vulnerability. Reflect on personal healing and the importance of self-love in attracting the right partners. Engage with thought-provoking journal prompts to deepen your understanding of love and self-acceptance. Embrace your essence and step confidently into the love you deserve!

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another episode of the Soulful Sunday Reset, where we take time to reflect, reset, and re-align with ourselves ✨ Today were getting REAL about our dream lives. I'm giving my best advice when it comes to actualizing your goals and no longer being the forever student. It's time 🤍 Grab your journal, get cozy, and let's get into it 🦋Today's Journal Prompts:1. Where in your life do you identify as a forever student, rather than someone who takes action? And how can you start implementing what you've learned? 2. If you were already living your dream life, what daily habits would you have?3. Identify one wasted hour of your day, how can you use it to move toward your dream life?4. What's one imperfect action you can take this week that will move you forward?My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen  All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 time to get serious about your dream life02:29 the key to actualizing your goals05:02 being the forever student08:52 expanders14:14 sacrifice & failing fast28:35 be a doer, not a dreamer#habitchange #selfsabotage #breakingbadhabits #routine #resetyourmindset #perfectionism #selfimprovement #motivationBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another episode of the Soulful Sunday Reset, where we take time to reflect, reset, and re-align with ourselves ✨ SPRING IS HERE! and with that comes the perfect opportunity to reset and step into a new version of yourself 🌷In this episode, we're talking about the hobbit shifts you need for spring- from releasing productivity, guilt to rebuilding confidence, and actually taking action on your dreams. I'll share how to move past self sabotage, stop waiting until you "feel ready" and redefine yourself worth and every space you enter. Plus, an "in & out" recap to set the tone for the new season!Grab your journal, get cozy, and let's get into it 🦋 Today's Journal Prompts:1. What's my "in's & out's" for march? 2. What are 3 things that I want to bring into my life this march?3. What’s something I’ve been putting off because I don’t feel ready and what would happen if I just started?My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9X The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 meet theo!!! + ending the winter season04:41 doing things even if you don’t feel ready, exiting self-sabotage & shifting from feelings to actions 11:02 self concept, rebuilding confidence & self-worth16:00 releasing productivity guilt19:52 march "ins & outs" recap21:48 why taking action on your dreams is EVERYTHING27:16 procrastination & how to step into your next-level self#springreset #podcastsforwomen #selfworthmatters #selfimprovement #confidencebuilding #perfectionism #habitchange #spring #productivityBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 Welcome to another episode of the Soulful Sunday Reset, where we take time to reflect, reset, and re-align with ourselves ✨ This week, we're letting go of the pressure to always do the right thing and embracing the truth that we are already enough. We're unpacking the root of perfectionism- why we chase approval, why we tie our worth to productivity, and how to release that weight. We'll also dive into the patterns that make life harder than it needs to be, like overthinking, decision fatigue, and procrastination (and the stories we tell ourselves that keep us stuck).Plus, I'm sharing the "I am, I have, I get to" Journal practice, affirmations, and a reminder that life gets to be easy 🤍 Grab your favourite drink, get cozy, and let's get into it!Today's Journal Prompts:1. What is one pattern that you’ve been seeing within yourself and how are you learning to release yourself from it? 2. What is one habit that you do that makes your life more difficult than it needs to be ?3. What is one thing you need to be more unapologetic with?4. What is one habit you want to start incorporating this week that will allow you to embody this unapologetic version of yourself?5. What is one belief you want to challenge this week?6. What is one reminder that you will post somewhere in your environment that reminds you of weeks soulful sunday reset?My mothers dedicated episode https://youtu.be/yA4aWhlcjoI?si=UDo5HKFGXsQkmZjlMy book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 welcome back to another soulful sunday reset!02:55 #1 overcoming perfectionism and chasing approval15:39 #2 indecisiveness18:27 #3 over complicating life21:52 #4 my “I am, I have, I get to” journal practice25:12 #5 procrastination, time blindness & the stories we tell ourselves32:28 #5 affirmations, mantras and the importance of self reflection35:03 outro - chatting about doing things I love#perfectionism #podcastsforwomen #selfworthmatters #selfimprovement #confidencebuilding #adhdBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.