

The Glow Up Secrets
Elicia Goguen
Join Elicia Goguen as she dives deep into the secrets she holds about the REAL glow up. Listen to her chat about self love, healing, relationships, women's wellness & more so that you can glow up into the BEST version of yourself 🦋Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.
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Jun 15, 2025 • 51min
204. how to break free from the addiction that quietly controls you.
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I open up and discuss "quiet addictions" and how to break free from toxic habits that no longer serve you 🤍Last weeks episode https://youtu.be/xWXR1pGuBDE?si=3pKi3WBIf9OpMNLjWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io00:00 intro to breaking free from addictions03:21 my struggles with unhealthy relationship with food & smoking W14:04 uncovering your “why” & committing to healing journey22:02 becoming more aware of your feelings & urges23:36 create physical space from your addiction25:41 becoming aware of the consequences of your actions27:54 replacing your bad habits with what’s best for you32:21 your social systems are EVERYTHING42:15 learning to unconditionally love yourself & this journey#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #recoveryjourney #podcast #getoutofyourownway #addictedBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Jun 8, 2025 • 29min
203. the motivation you need to get out of your rut.
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you a little pep talk about getting out of your own way and exiting your "rut X self-sabotage" cycle!20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9X The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #perfectionism #podcast #getoutofyourownway #motivationBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Jun 1, 2025 • 24min
202. the guilt of evolving: shedding identities, outgrowing people & wanting MORE from life 🎙
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we're talking about the messy, beautiful reality of personal growth- the part that no one really prepares you for. If you've ever felt guilty for wanting more out of life, for letting go of old identities, or for outgrowing relationships that no longer align, then this conversation is for you. We'll explore what it means to evolve, the emotional weight of stepping into a new version of yourself, and how to move through the discomfort of change without apologizing for your expansion.Journal Prompts:1. What version of myself am I currently outgrowing?2. Who am I ready to step into fully and unapologetically?3. What new desires are whispering to me?4. What's one thing I can start doing to allow myself expand into this new version of me?Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #perfectionism #podcast #innerchildhealing #identityBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

May 25, 2025 • 23min
201. how to stop assuming the worst and pre-grieving things that haven’t happened yet..
Discover how pre-grieving can hold you back from fully enjoying life. Learn to combat the fear of loss with powerful personal stories and insights. Embrace resilience and shift your mindset towards positivity, even in times of uncertainty. Explore the impact of anticipating negative outcomes on mental health and the importance of being present in the moment. Let go of control and celebrate your journey of healing and self-awareness.

May 18, 2025 • 25min
200. it's time to set yourself free from generational trauma & exit survival mode ❤️🩹
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you some of the mindset shifts and wisdom I've learned from the process of setting myself free from generational trauma and living in survival mode 💗Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io00:00 intro00:44 recognizing your patterns08:32 release yourself from the past13:41 exit the victim mentality17:40 life after trauma19:19 healing in cycles#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #perfectionism #podcast #innerchildhealingBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

May 11, 2025 • 24min
199. if you're in the process of change, this message is for YOU 🙏🏼 NEW SEASON, NEW YOU! 🤍
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I talk to you about the process of change and what it really looks like & takes for us to move into a new version of ourselves this season 🤍Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #perfectionism #podcast #trusttheprocessBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

May 4, 2025 • 27min
198. what to do when life feels messy and out of control (you'll feel better after this)
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's podcast episode I give you my best advice on what to do when life feels messy and out of control.Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #perfectionism #podcast #trusttheprocessBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Apr 27, 2025 • 45min
197. how to live softer, stress less, trust more & rest in your feminine energy 🌷🤍
Hi my loves 🦋 if you've been living in survival mode, overthinking, overworking, overdoing… then this episode is for you. Today, I'm sharing the tools, mindset shifts, and nervous system practises that have helped me stop, trying to control everything and start living with more peace, trust, and softness. We'll talk about how to let go of the pressure to do it all, how does feel safe and rest, and how to shift back into your feminine energy in a way that feels nourishing, not performative.Today's Journal Prompts:1. where am I forcing or controlling right now in my life and what’s one mindset that I can make to release even a little bit of this pressure? 2. what does softness feel like in my body and how can I create more of it within my week? Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 intro01:56 why don’t you reside in your feminine energy ?07:19 this is a journey, not another task08:47 feminine & masculine energy explained11:25 emotional releasing & connecting emotionally13:36 nature, movement, cyclical living/cycle syncing17:57 nervous system regulation22:03 the art of detachment24:12 just because you can, doesn’t mean you have to29:18 letting go of the past31:31 ditching perfectionism33:34 rest & taking space34:58 removing toxic external stressors37:37 prompt #140:18 prompt #241:28 becoming aware of how you FEEL#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #softlife #feminineenergy #perfectionism #podcastBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Apr 20, 2025 • 39min
196. how to stop being low maintenance in relationships 🎙 situationships, low standards & anxiousness..
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode, we are diving deep into no longer being "low maintenance" in relationships by first looking at WHY we accept the bare minimum, situationships and relationships that do not serve us and mindset shifts, journal prompts and reminders to finally get out of your patterns. I hope you resonate 🤍Today's Journal Prompts:1. What have I accepted and negotiated in my past relationships that do not align to what I truly want in a relationship and what do I want in a relationship? 2. What is the way that I tend to shut down when it comes to seeing that my relationship needs are not being met?EXTRA PROMPTS3. What’s one daily habit that I could practice that will help me get closer to becoming the version of me who has strong boundaries? E.x letting myself have a second to respond to a request before saying yes or prioritizing a certain set of personal life goals before spending excessive amount of time in my relationship)4. What qualities would I love to see in a person when it comes to conflict and how they respond when I’m bringing up that my needs in a relationship aren't being met?5. What is a reminder that I can tell myself in the times that I am too afraid to walk away? (example- letting go of something that is not 100% for me, allows me to get closer to what is 100% for me)Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 intro01:05 how to stop being low maintenance in relationships03:52 gaslighting yourself06:47 the cycle you keep playing out14:14 grant yourself MORE18:25 get clear on your needs and wants22:25 communication32:49 healthy love#anxiousattachment #secureattachment #datingadvice #relationshiptips #healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomenBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Apr 6, 2025 • 33min
195. girl, it's time to let yourself be HAPPY 💗 inner child healing, receiving love & being the real YOU!
Hi my loves 🦋 in today's episode, I'm talking about something deeply personal… What it really means shut yourself off from happiness, joy, and even love… And how healing your inner child can start to change everything..We'll dive into:-the subtle ways we block happiness and softness-where these patterns start-who are you could be if you let yourself feel safe again-how to reconnect with a version of you that actually enjoys lifeMy inner child discovery digital guide on sale now! https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/76e37742-8b45-4691-a2fd-1acec42c0301Today's Journal Prompts:1. What is my way of shutting myself off? 2. Why am I doing this and where is it coming from?3. Who would I be if I didn't push my inner child into its shell?My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy main channel @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 getting to the root of why we shut ourselves off from happiness, inner child healing & emotional releasing21:45 the journey of unlocking your inner childs potential#healingjourney #selflovejourney #selfconfidence #podcastsforwomen #innerchildhealing #perfectionism #shadowworkBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.