The Glow Up Secrets 218. 10 hard TRUTHS about healthy relationships that will help you GROW 🤍 lessons in secure, REAL love 🙏🏼
Oct 5, 2025
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Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss some of the most important lessons I'm (always) learning when it comes to building and maintaining a HEALTHY relationship 🤍
Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/
Link to my digital journal guides (ABUNDANCE MINDSET is the "scarcity" one I was talking about in this episode!:) https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets
Some healthy relationship resources:
How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7s
How to feel confident in your relationship https://youtu.be/HxMPt405sEk?si=lW6xoxWnXbT9Uyhd
The Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrD
Secure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAa
Jillian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480
Kier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84Zjdk
Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082
My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA
My book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb
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The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast
My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io
Timestamps:
00:00 this is why people in healthy relationships don’t have anything to say to YOU
07:31 todays sponsor
09:15 not everything is a personal attack
10:56 let go of arguments and the need to be right
11:46 your emotional immaturity
15:13 thread: if you want a relationship that feels safe/healthy you need to understand this
18:50 you must learn term work
23:07 selflessness & impatience
26:57 conflict is not a failure & learning healthy repair
30:57 natural shifts in your relationship
33:49 your partner can’t meet everyone of your needs
36:30 growth is uneven
39:00 comparison kills your relationship
40:52 behind every happy couple…
#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasinglove #secureattachment #secureattachment
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.
Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/
Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss some of the most important lessons I'm (always) learning when it comes to building and maintaining a HEALTHY relationship 🤍
Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/
Link to my digital journal guides (ABUNDANCE MINDSET is the "scarcity" one I was talking about in this episode!:) https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets
Some healthy relationship resources:
How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7s
How to feel confident in your relationship https://youtu.be/HxMPt405sEk?si=lW6xoxWnXbT9Uyhd
The Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrD
Secure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAa
Jillian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480
Kier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84Zjdk
Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082
My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGA
My book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb
Open app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA30
20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30
My main channel @eliciagoguen
All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9X
The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcast
My audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io
Timestamps:
00:00 this is why people in healthy relationships don’t have anything to say to YOU
07:31 todays sponsor
09:15 not everything is a personal attack
10:56 let go of arguments and the need to be right
11:46 your emotional immaturity
15:13 thread: if you want a relationship that feels safe/healthy you need to understand this
18:50 you must learn term work
23:07 selflessness & impatience
26:57 conflict is not a failure & learning healthy repair
30:57 natural shifts in your relationship
33:49 your partner can’t meet everyone of your needs
36:30 growth is uneven
39:00 comparison kills your relationship
40:52 behind every happy couple…
#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasinglove #secureattachment #secureattachment
Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.