The Glow Up Secrets

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I’m reflecting on the year that changed me the most — the year I was navigating chronic illness, grief, mental exhaustion, and the slow process of rebuilding myself. In this episode, I share the five lessons that truly carried me: surrender, self-compassion, releasing perfectionism, letting go of comparison, and finding faith again.If you’re moving through illness, depression, grief, or any hard season, I hope this brings softness to your day and reminds you that you’re not behind, you’re not doing it wrong, and you’re already healing more than you think. Next week, we’ll go deeper into everything I’ve learned specifically about grief.My substack https://substack.com/@eliciagoguen?r=1sstx1&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profileSign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/ My digital journal guides are on SALE! https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6Sb Open app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 my history with chronic illness, IBD, grief05:27 surrender, non-urgency on your healing journey & the mind body connection10:39 embark on a healing journey & what true healing looks like16:19 dropping self blame, & embracing self compassion18:18 dropping comparison20:54 having faith#healingjourney #chronicillness #chronicpain #mindbodyconnection #ibd #podcastsforwomen #podcast #griefBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I chat with you about how I'm getting my spark back for life through disconnecting from chaos and reconnecting to MYSELF & my creativity ✨My substack https://substack.com/@eliciagoguen?r=1sstx1&utm_medium=ios&utm_source=profileThe artists way https://amzn.to/44UxB5ESign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/ My digital journal guides are on SALE! https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #disconnecttoreconnect #spiritualjourney #podcastsforwomen #theartistsway #creativityBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I chat with you about how I'm navigating seasonal transitions and learning to embrace what winter has to offer ❄️Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/My digital journal guides are on SALE! https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 embracing seasonal change03:50 leaning into your rhythm (luteal phase chats) & understanding your self sabotage (cannabis chats)13:50 moving with natures rhythms17:10 cozy, safe environments19:50 getting out of comfort zones23:20 miami recap, getting back into routine my current fave self care routine#winterpreparations #winterarc #healingjourney #selfreflection #shadowworkBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I chat with you about how I'm currently navigating a life where I no longer live and operate out of survival mode 🙏🏼✨My happiness/bday vlog https://youtu.be/ayNwh15rHH8?si=ltCFE4ThhKtmtbwfSign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/My digital journal guides are on SALE! https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 learning to feel safe again03:12 becoming an active participant of life05:45 living a slower life07:28 human connection11:33 the reality of heeling14:44 learning not to neglect yourself, reworking discipline27:57 outro#navigatinglifechallenges #navigatingadulthood #adviceforyoungpeople #adviceforwomen #20slife #happinessjourney #survivalmodeBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you life lessons I've learned in my 20's ✨Comfort zone video from my main channel https://youtu.be/ldlxRm46Lls?si=ZZou6gKSOp2SgHXBSign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/Link to my current digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 intro03:00 everything you say you can’t do, you can do it04:26 you will always fall off of something06:03 the answer to your anxiety lies within human connection09:10 let your process be messy10:25 let yourself be happy12:09 stop comparing your life path with someone else’s17:14 forgive your parents20:27 remove yourself from toxic environments21:51 it’s OK if you don’t know22:44 rebranding the podcast, bday plans, moving & more#navigatinglifechallenges #navigatingadulthood #adviceforyoungpeople #adviceforwomen #20slifeBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share 3 things you need to hear if you want to step into a CONFIDENT happy and successful version of yourself ✨How to become the woman of your DREAMS https://youtu.be/pJ1VzmgF750?si=J1syhrNrMWgbnvY-Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/Link to my current digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 it’s time to step into your highest self03:59 letting yourself be SEEN08:54 letting yourself have DESIRES & DREAMS12:08 letting life be EASY#confidencetips #womanhood #podcastsforwomen #becomingthatgirlBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share personal stories of my late blooming in life and help you shift your mindset about feeling behind in life ✨Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/Link to my current digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #podcastsforwomen #resetyourmindset #havingfaith #rejectionisredirection #feelingbehind #navigatinguncertainty #navigatinglifechallenges #dreamlifemanifestationBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss some of the most important lessons I'm (always) learning when it comes to building and maintaining a HEALTHY relationship 🤍Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/ Link to my current digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsSome healthy relationship resources:How to stop chasing love & attention from emotionally unavailable people https://youtu.be/peIuAEMAMQ0?si=of_6YHYZRCsyL3EJ How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7sLessons you need to learn if you're anxiously attached https://youtu.be/l35eRc9zN_g?si=1wWc13bT4quPgx-0The Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrDSecure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAaJullian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480Jullian's IG https://www.instagram.com/jillianturecki/?hl=enKier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84ZjdkWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA30 20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 you are not alone & your first mindset shift04:54 todays sponsor06:38 feel it12:30 closure, detachment, redirecting your energy & old patterns18:24 stop waiting, stop analyzing.25:43 rebuilding yourself & redirecting your mind & life31:26 you are NOT behind#healingjourney #heartbreak #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasinglove #secureattachment #secureattachmentBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/ Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss some of the most important lessons I'm (always) learning when it comes to building and maintaining a HEALTHY relationship 🤍Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/Link to my digital journal guides (ABUNDANCE MINDSET is the "scarcity" one I was talking about in this episode!:) https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets Some healthy relationship resources:How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7sHow to feel confident in your relationship https://youtu.be/HxMPt405sEk?si=lW6xoxWnXbT9UyhdThe Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrDSecure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAaJillian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480Kier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84ZjdkWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 this is why people in healthy relationships don’t have anything to say to YOU07:31 todays sponsor09:15 not everything is a personal attack10:56 let go of arguments and the need to be right11:46 your emotional immaturity15:13 thread: if you want a relationship that feels safe/healthy you need to understand this18:50 you must learn term work23:07 selflessness & impatience 26:57 conflict is not a failure & learning healthy repair30:57 natural shifts in your relationship33:49 your partner can’t meet everyone of your needs36:30 growth is uneven39:00 comparison kills your relationship40:52 behind every happy couple…#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasinglove #secureattachment #secureattachmentBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I dive deep into why we chase love and attention from emotionally unavailable people and how to finally let go and raise our standards in love 🤍Resources:How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7sHow to feel confident in your relationship https://youtu.be/HxMPt405sEk?si=lW6xoxWnXbT9UyhdThe Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrDSecure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAaJullian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480Kier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84Zjdk+ him and his wifes podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vzcBBFNF7Wm5Ohme3mbt3?si=7ef696ae8b6a4850  @BreenyLee  YoutuberThe Feminine Frequency Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/4TrLDBn1Q1DP9XP9voFINB?si=4ab2f2474eba453bWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA30 20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 no more chasing love00:59 it happens to the best of us02:38 understand, release & rebuild05:07 todays sponsor06:59 early childhood attachments & blue prints18:44 forgiveness, letting go & moving on27:44 raising your standards in love34:25 who is influencing you in love? resources & reminders#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasingloveBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.