The Glow Up Secrets

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/ Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I discuss some of the most important lessons I'm (always) learning when it comes to building and maintaining a HEALTHY relationship 🤍Sign up for my email list! https://theglowupsecrets.com/Link to my digital journal guides (ABUNDANCE MINDSET is the "scarcity" one I was talking about in this episode!:) https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets Some healthy relationship resources:How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7sHow to feel confident in your relationship https://youtu.be/HxMPt405sEk?si=lW6xoxWnXbT9UyhdThe Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrDSecure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAaJillian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480Kier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84ZjdkWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA3020 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsets Link to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 this is why people in healthy relationships don’t have anything to say to YOU07:31 todays sponsor09:15 not everything is a personal attack10:56 let go of arguments and the need to be right11:46 your emotional immaturity15:13 thread: if you want a relationship that feels safe/healthy you need to understand this18:50 you must learn term work23:07 selflessness & impatience 26:57 conflict is not a failure & learning healthy repair30:57 natural shifts in your relationship33:49 your partner can’t meet everyone of your needs36:30 growth is uneven39:00 comparison kills your relationship40:52 behind every happy couple…#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasinglove #secureattachment #secureattachmentBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Thank you Bumble for sponsoring today's video ✨ One point of clarification on our Bumble segment today: On Bumble, all new members in the US are required to verify their phone number and photo. As part of our commitment to a safer, more trusted community, photo verification will soon be mandatory for everyone in the US.Thinking about dating again? Take this as your sign. Start your love story on Bumble. https://bumble.com/Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I dive deep into why we chase love and attention from emotionally unavailable people and how to finally let go and raise our standards in love 🤍Resources:How to build a relationship with yourself https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d6-k467qd7sHow to feel confident in your relationship https://youtu.be/HxMPt405sEk?si=lW6xoxWnXbT9UyhdThe Power of Attachment https://amzn.to/46lnyrDSecure Love https://amzn.to/480YkAaJullian on Love Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2qy9p5oXD7keoBQQzk1e1z?si=2f7d976e28804480Kier Gains https://www.instagram.com/kiergaines?igsh=cDcwM3A0ZG84Zjdk+ him and his wifes podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3vzcBBFNF7Wm5Ohme3mbt3?si=7ef696ae8b6a4850  @BreenyLee  YoutuberThe Feminine Frequency Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/4TrLDBn1Q1DP9XP9voFINB?si=4ab2f2474eba453bWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Link to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecretsMy book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA30 20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 no more chasing love00:59 it happens to the best of us02:38 understand, release & rebuild05:07 todays sponsor06:59 early childhood attachments & blue prints18:44 forgiveness, letting go & moving on27:44 raising your standards in love34:25 who is influencing you in love? resources & reminders#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecurities #chasingloveBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I give you mindset shifts and habit resets to help you reset your mental health and start feeling better about your life!Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets 20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9X The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 it’s time for a reset…01:58 exercise your free will14:12 romanticize every season of life16:04 you have less control over your life than you think you do19:45 just because your day is not productive doesn’t mean it’s a bad day21:55 your mental diet23:45 your mornings29:49 let yourself dream33:40 your nights36:26 your habits39:00 unfortunately, it does work43:11 chats#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #juststart #perfectionism #motivationalspeech #podcast #depressionrelief #depression #mindsetshift #acim #blessingsfromabove #faithBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you how I'm currently navigating a season of life where I want things to change but also don't want to take it for granted. Tune into gratitude with me ✨Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen  Mood board video https://youtu.be/SMqH93vJ_tk?si=eTdTmTOf8S3J_VBaAll my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #gratitudepractice #podcast #depressionrelief #depression #mindsetshift #acim #blessingsfromabove #faith #manifestationBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you the habits & mindset shifts that keep me from falling into deep depression and self sabotaging cycles, especially after hard season of grief and loss.Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen Mood board video https://youtu.be/SMqH93vJ_tk?si=eTdTmTOf8S3J_VBaAll my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io00:00 sometimes, depression happens.05:28 practicing non resistance and taking agency over your mind16:16 the power of your routine21:06 trauma is living in your body, so move it23:46 letting yourself dream & believing that your future is brighter than your present moment#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #juststart #perfectionism #motivationalspeech #podcast #depressionrelief #depression #mindsetshift #acim #blessingsfromabove #faithBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I dive deep into why we feel insecure in our relationships, doubt them and feel unworthy. I give you REAL advice on how to become more embodied and free from insecurities in hopes that you finally embrace the love you've always deserved 🤍Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082Steph's work https://portal.stephmorris.co/thekeyOpen app (30 days free) https://go.o-p-e-n.com/ELICIA30My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 how to be more confident in a healthy relationship02:30 healthy vs unhealthy love05:33 believing you deserve a healthy relationship09:40 deconstructing your beliefs of feeling unworthy17:02 somatic work, embodiment & nervous system regulation#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #insecureattachment #insecuritiesBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we talk about the pressure to marry young, the myths around biological clocks, and what it really means when you feel like you're falling behind in life. We'll unpack how much of this pressure comes from society versus your own timeline and why waiting often leads to stronger healthier choices. And at the end of the day, I believe it's not all up to us.. there's a bigger plan at play and trusting in God/Spirit with your path can bring peace when the world tells you to rush.Advanced Maternal Pregnancies Youtube Link https://youtu.be/VcQo3c5niSk?si=i8dN-yejOOrSNsLDThe Tiktok Short Version https://www.tiktok.com/@sharhenley_/video/7426579799478390059?_d=secCgYIASAHKAESPgo8ci4OSy2yWCj%2BTxmdK1TF07484Fht2XHKQTjK0WvLbfs53G11wPr36q224A2tI8QBbijm6e41MjFJFfxfGgA%3D&_r=1&share_app_id=1233&share_item_id=7426579799478390059×tamp=1729714841&u_code=da78084dag6dhj&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_source=short_fallbackFertility Podcast Reference https://open.spotify.com/episode/3Hz0SMdGWEkszz9bnfiVKo?si=c60bb179914447bfWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 intro02:35 the realities of rushing into relationships & marriages13:10 the “biological clock” myth & realities prepping for motherhood/fertility26:27 letting go and letting god#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworth #aging #motherhoodBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I share with you some of the things I did to prepare myself for the relationship of my dreams ✨Work with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets 20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.ioTimestamps:00:00 attracting your dream relationship01:51 where do I find my person ?04:16 clarity13:56 saying no early19:24 become the main objective26:55 there are no coincidences#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #relationshipadvice #anxiousattachmentstyle #attractrelationship #feminineenergy #datingtips #selfworthBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode I chat with you about getting out of lack and tuning into your blessings 🤍A course in miracles text https://amzn.to/4mw8j4jWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9X The Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io00:00 intro to a course in miracles04:13 remove the magnifying glass07:45 shifting your nervous system10:30 how to get out of your head and into your body14:15 ways to regulate yourself 17:38 ways you block blessings26:46 let go over and over again#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #juststart #perfectionism #motivationalspeech #podcast #getoutofyourownway #mindsetshift #acim #blessingsfromabove #faithBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.

Hi my loves 🦋 In today's episode we catch about what to do when you don't know what to do..The mystic jesus https://amzn.to/4mbhebdWork with me 1:1 https://shop.beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets/504d27dc-4092-4216-bb7a-3ca273e7d082My book "the ultimate glow up guide" is available NOW 💗 get it at your local bookstores & online at places like amazon! https://amzn.to/3M4SfGAMy book recommendations can be found here https://amzn.to/4hfP6SbLink to my digital journal guides https://beacons.ai/theglowupsecrets20 free credits for classpass! https://classpass.com/refer/MMU78TBR30 My main channel  @eliciagoguen All my home, wellness, clothes, self-care faves can be found here https://www.shopltk.com/explore/eliciagoguen/productsetsLink to my microphone, camera & my favourite tech items https://www.amazon.com/shop/influencer-280d1a49/list/2P83PPZGKLP00?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_aipsflist_aipsfinfluencer-280d1a49_426RJGVE7WH4HG1KCM9XThe Glow Up Secrets podcast channel https://www.youtube.com/@theglowupsecretspodcastMy audio podcast, instagram, tiktok & pinterest can all be found here: https://eliciagoguen.komi.io#healingjourney #selflovejourney #traumahealing #podcastsforwomen #juststart #perfectionism #motivationalspeech #podcast #getoutofyourownway #mindsetshift #slowliving #softlife #feminineenergy #restisproductiveBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/the-glow-up-secrets--5693167/support.