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Playing With Fire

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Jul 9, 2023 • 38min

117 Business and pleasure with Beth Hankes

Beth Hankes, Founder and CEO of Earth and Salt, discusses the benefits of bringing relational skills into the business environment. They explore the challenges and lifestyle changes of being a business owner and sex educator, the impact of business ownership on personal relationships, and the importance of balancing personal and professional lives. They also discuss starting a business with a partner and invite listeners to visit the Earth and Salt website and take an open relationship quiz.
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Jul 1, 2023 • 54min

116 Mindful Dating with guest expert Marie Thouin

Guess what they didn't teach us in school? HOW TO DATE. Much less how to date MINDFULLY. Even less-less when we are ready to date non-monogamously. My lovely colleague and fellow Ph.D. Researcher, Dr. Marie Thouin, decided to take this matter into her own hands... She talks with us about mindful dating and how you can turn dating into something joyful! So many good reasons to work with Marie and get more pleasure out of your dating experience, and she's offering a 30 minute free intro session at https://www.whatiscompersion.com/ You can also find her at https://www.loveinsight-dating.com/ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Jun 17, 2023 • 1h 2min

115 The Nature of Relating with guest expert Megan Bhatia

Have you been *working* on your relationships so hard you've lost the sense of joy and pleasure of it all? Time for something new! Megan is an expert in coming home to our innate capacity to relate to your Self & Other by engaging with the natural world & your body Listen in as we bask in the joy of creating something new. We've been cooking up an exciting new project that will take you to your body & soul with ease & meaning. Check it out https://www.wetravel.com/trips/the-nature-of-relating-megan-bhatia-llc-costa-rica-43821186 Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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Jun 10, 2023 • 32min

114 Non-monogamy is a psychological growth lab: Are you ready?

Non-monogamy comes in as many forms as there are people imagining outside the norm. Imagination is the tool we use to dream the dream forward to what's next. When you follow your imagination that way you gain a better understanding of yourself. Relationships that focus on growth don't have to be non-monogamous, but non-monogamy creates tons of opportunities to make your unconscious *stuff* conscious. It will also likely challenge you to face your relational wounds and fears. This might sound like it's not a ton of fun but in practice, it isn't just the tough stuff that surfaces- it also reveals deep layers of joy and pleasure. Knowing that you are in a psychological relationship makes the waves of *stuff* meaningful so you can get into the juicy fun too! Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com Watch this episode on YouTube Music: Dance of Felt by ⁠⁠Blue Dot Sessions
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Jun 3, 2023 • 1h

113 How to do hard things & build exceptional love with Neuro-Somatic Intelligence expert Elisabeth Kristof

Neuro-Somatic Intelligence expert, Elisabeth Kristof, shares tools for regulating the nervous system in relationships and navigating conflicts. They discuss the impact of neuro somatic intelligence on behaviors and relationships. They also explore the challenges of making life changes and the need for effective regulation in dating. The concept of neuro tags and emotional flashbacks is explained, emphasizing personal responsibility. Listeners are encouraged to start a daily practice for real change in life, relationships, and behaviors.
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May 27, 2023 • 1h 18min

112 Sex clubs and more with Ashley Weller from What's Your Position podcast

Swinging, sex clubs, bdsm, lifestyle - if you're into stories about these things, this episode is for you. Ashley Weller from the What's Your Position podcast joins us to share her experiences with and perspectives on sex, Check out Ashley's Instagram, @whatsyourpositionpodcast! And listen to the podcast! Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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May 20, 2023 • 55min

111 Build Your Relationship Toolkit with guest experts Dedeker, Emily & Jase of the Multiamory podcast

Relationships require so many different skills. Do you ever struggle to process an argument, or to identify what you really want and need? Dedeker, Emily, and Jase, the hosts of the Multiamory podcast and authors of the book Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships, talk with us about relationship tools that work for ALL relationship structures. This is a must-listen whether you are non-monogamous, monogamous, or just want to upgrade your communication skills for every area of your life! Order their book at multiamory.com/book. (order your copy now!) Subscribe to the multamory podcast in your favorite podcast player app. Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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May 13, 2023 • 1h 6min

110 How surrogate partner therapy works with guest expert Brian Gibney

Struggling with intimacy but you've already tried *everything*? Not sure what could possibly help? Surrogate partner therapy is amazing and we want you to know more about it! Brian Gibney, a Surrogate Partner Therapist talks with us about how he and other SPTs help people build trust and communication that allows them to experience physical touch with safety and connection. For more information about Surrogate Partner Therapy and Brian Gibney go to BrianGibney.org, Resources mentioned in the episode: https://www.surrogatepartnercollective.org/ https://www.embracespt.org/ Are you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.com
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May 6, 2023 • 40min

109 We Opened Up & EEK! What to do when exciting beginnings turn scary

Did you jump into the open waters and find the water kinda choppy? Totally normal, we're sharing: -How the scientific method can help you do this all with less pain (really!) -Why you are struggling with managing change -What do you need to consider about starter boundaries for opening There are a lot of changes to navigate, but you don't have to figure it all out by yourself. We're outlining how we recommend navigating the change, strategically avoiding pitfalls by taking a tested approach, and, bottom line, how to open up without burning things down. Or, if you're already scorched around the edges, let's talk about how to handle that too. www.theyearofopening.com Want to open up with support? email Joli @ JoliHamilton.com and find out how Referenced: Maxx Hill's Relationship Smorgasbord
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Apr 29, 2023 • 51min

108 What would you do with your full power? A conversation about kink, power exchange, and everyday life with Mollena Williams-Haas

In this podcast, Mollena Williams-Haas, a Kink Doula, writer, performer, and podcast host, discusses power exchange, authenticity, and kink. The speakers explore the concept of kink and power exchange relationships, the importance of power exchange, personal stories of addiction and mental health, and the exploration of kink as a spectrum. They also touch on topics like race play and self-discovery in embracing one's kinks.

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