Conversations with a Dom

Chief and Moineau are back, answering more of your burning BDSM and relationship questions!Ever wondered what to do if impact play isn’t your thing? Or whether all Doms need a title? They break down alternatives for brats and subs who aren’t into spanking, and debate the role of labels in the Dom/sub dynamic. Plus, what’s the best way to meet a unicorn?Moineau shares an update on mastering the cowgirl position and Chief reveals his latest quest for the ultimate male sex toy - this time, an octopus-like vibrating stroker.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Chief and Moineau dive headfirst into the first batch of juicy, reader-submitted questions about BDSM, dominance, submission, and everything in between. From spicing up oral with dominant energy to navigating long-distance D/s struggles, they tackle it all with humor, honesty, and practical advice.Ever felt your dominance wane? Wondering how to introduce kinks to a vanilla partner without freaking them out? Curious about the psychology behind impact play? They’ve got you covered. Expect candid discussions on pegging, face slapping, balancing desires in a D/s dynamic, and how to keep that dominant spark alive.With plenty of laughs, real talk, and insightful tips, this episode is packed with actionable advice to help you deepen your BDSM relationships and own your kink with confidence.00:00 Introduction and episode overview 01:35 Chocolate and aphrodisiacs 02:16 Funny anecdotes and misunderstandings 03:19 First listener question: dominance during oral 05:53 Pros and cons of DS relationships 08:59 Losing dominance drive 12:32 Bringing up kinks with a new partner 14:10 Dealing with extreme kinks 23:45 Feeling like a fraud as a dom 30:07 Developing dominant skills 37:37 Navigating dominance and submission dynamics 38:09 Compromise and communication in kink 39:07 The rubber band analogy 39:49 Recommended reading: with sprinkles on top 40:50 Balancing desires in DS relationships 42:01 Exploring impact play and resistance 44:01 Discussing face slapping and personal limits 54:54 Spontaneity in BDSM 59:02 Finding time for DS scenes 01:09:07 Preparing for peggingSupport the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

Dive into the world of communication in kink versus vanilla relationships! Discover how couples can better express their desires with fun exercises from a captivating book. Enjoy candid discussions about navigating fantasies and boundaries, including threesomes. Explore the complexities of BDSM dynamics and the significance of effective communication within them. Plus, a light-hearted look at erotic vocabulary reveals how language shapes intimacy. This entertaining conversation is perfect for those wanting to deepen their connections!

Discover 30 engaging exercises to boost communication and intimacy in BDSM relationships. From joint journaling to desire mapping, these activities help partners connect on deeper levels. Explore role-reversal games and boundary testing to enhance trust and understanding. Each exercise encourages open dialogue about desires and limits, transforming your sex life. Embrace adventure with fantasy sharing and gratitude lists for a healthier dynamic. It's all about fostering empathy and building a more satisfying connection.

Chief and Moineau dive deep into the world of relaxed intimacy, sharing their personal experiences with sexting and teasing. They discuss the psychological and physical elements of BDSM, focusing on consent and communication as keys to enhance sexual tension. The duo also explores the art of massage as a tool for deep emotional connection, illustrating how anticipation and playful teasing can build intimacy. Their candid recounting of a night filled with unexpected pleasure highlights the importance of understanding each other’s needs in a dynamic relationship.

The discussion highlights the transformative power of a 'sex menu' for enhancing communication in relationships. Candid explorations of evolving preferences reveal insights into intimacy, anal play, and BDSM dynamics, including the significance of clothing and aftercare. The hosts humorously examine fantasies and consent, while also reflecting on shifting attitudes toward kinks and erotic material. This engaging dialogue encourages listeners to embrace personal growth and open discussions about desires, ultimately enriching their sexual experiences.

Discover tips on finding BDSM events and making kinky friends from Chief and Moineau. Learn about using FetLife, attending munches, collaborative events, and word of mouth recommendations. Find out how to locate events on vanilla platforms and explore gender dynamics within the community.

In this discussion, Liz, a newcomer to BDSM, shares her journey of introducing D/s dynamics into her 11-year relationship. With humor and honesty, she reflects on overcoming initial fears and the profound impact this shift has had on intimacy. Liz emphasizes the importance of communication, particularly through tools like a sex menu for expressing desires. She highlights how submission has been liberating in her otherwise dominant life and showcases how open dialogue has transformed her connection with her partner.

In this episode Chief clears up misconceptions about the BDSM and Dom/sub lifestyle. With a wealth of experience and knowledge, Chief discusses and debunks eight prevalent myths. Whether you're new to the scene or looking for clarity on certain aspects of BDSM, this episode is packed with insights, advice, and a call for open-mindedness and consent above all.Join us as we explore the true nature of power play and empower you with the knowledge to engage in healthy, consensual BDSM dynamics.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...

What’s it REALLY like to visit a professional Dominatrix? In this episode of Conversations wtih a Dom Chief, Moineau, and their guest Tom, discuss his experiences of visiting a professional Domme. It's an honest and educational look at personal growth and exploration in BDSM, tailored for those curious about or involved in the lifestyle. You’ll hear:Tom's journey: How personal circumstances led him to explore BDSM and seek professional Dominatrices.How to find the right Dominatrix for you: Where to find them, the process of choosing a Dominatrix, and tips for initiating contact.What really happens in a session: Examples of what Dominatrices do and don’t do, and how you should communicate with them.Why fantasy and reality aren’t the same: Insights into the expectations versus the realities of BDSM play, emphasising consent, communication, and safety.How Tom’s experiences have impacted him personally: Tom's reflections on how these experiences have facilitated personal discovery and emotional growth.Tune in for an authentic conversation that demystifies the world of professional domination.Support the show--------------Enjoyed the episode? Take your sex life to new heights and turn your fantasies into reality with my book and courses. Your dream dynamic is just a step away! The BDSM Bundle: Get my two best selling digital courses, plus my ebook as a bonus (https://courses.kinkyevents.co.uk/bundles/bdsm-bundle).Sensational Scenes. Learn how to heighten arousal, induce subspace, and have mind-blowing sexual experiences. Pick up a copy of my ebook today (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/book).The Art of Submission. Become a confident submissive and make your kinky fantasies a reality with our online video course for subs (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/aos).Sinful Shibari: Learn rope bondage for couples with our online video course (https://kinkyevents.co.uk/sinful-shibari).Freebies: Free ebook, sex menu template, and email content ...